If I ever get married..........
I'd probably be like Emma, I'd have nobody there to be with me cos I only have a few friends and the ones I have are only interested in themselves. I wouldn't have a maid of honour cos nobody deserves that role. My best pal of 20 yrs got married and I wasn't allowed to be bridesmaid or maid if honour. She got her room mate or lodger of one or two yrs to do it cos she saw her more than me. Other worked together and lived together so of course they would.
She wouldn't take me to help her with the wedding or see dresses, she completely cut me out and when I questioned it and asked her partner to help me get hold of her, he said no so I was unhappy cos it was odd not helping her celebrate her big day she told me don't come to wedding cos I was just jealous bitch basically.
Made it up in end but still only invited at wedding as a guest. She's moved 20 miles away now so don't see her much and won't give me her mobile number or just hasn't yet I don't know.