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Women: Would you nark right then and there?

posted 12 years ago by joe2002
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The scene where Mary meets the TA's wife - would you tell the wife right then and there in front of God and everyone that you slept with her husband?

My wife said that most women in that situation would be too embarrassed/ashamed to "admit they were that stupid".

On a side note, wouldn't the wife have smelled something fishy seeing Mary's reaction?

If I had banged a hot woman, saw the woman at a party and she introduced me to her husband, I don't know if I could tell the husband right then and there. Of course, it would depend on how BIG the guy was, but part of me would be thinking, *I* don't want to hurt the *husband* - it's not the *husband's* fault he married a slut!

[–] PossiblyEmma 11 years ago

Yeah i don;t think most women would do it there and then. It would be embarrassing and i guess you font wanna show the guy how much is affects you. Plus hurting the wife. But she must have guessed it was pretty obvious ahaha

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[–] doldrums452 11 years ago

I'm sure the wife must have suspected something. She didn't look too convinced when the TA told her Mary must have a stomach ache or something. I think it really depends on personality. Someone brazen would have probably made a scene. I don't think it's fair to judge someone if that were the case, but I do think it is a bit classier to just leave. Not because you feel stupid, but because that man doesn't deserve anymore of your pain or attention. At least that's just what I think. Never having been in that situation, I don't know how I'd react if that happened to me.

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[–] AcrosstheMersey 10 years ago

I think the situation is different with the sexes in reverse because it could lead to violence, if you confronted a guy and said hey I slept with your wife he'd smack you in the face before you got to explain that the wife didn't once mention that she was married or that she implied you'd be moving in together. Personally I wouldn't make a scene but I would talk to the wife. I don't think it would be fair to leave her clueless and in a relationship with a lieing toad for a husband but it also wouldn't be fair to cause a scene that will leave her humiliated.

[–] joe2002 10 years ago

Thanks. An equally relevant question might be, if you were the *wife* would you *want* the mistress to tell you right then and there?

[–] AcrosstheMersey 10 years ago

Oh yes, definitely. I would hate to be the fool who didn't know, tell me straight and let me deal with it, don't leave me in the dark! Plus I agree with a previous poster who said the wife looked a bit suspicious, I'd hate to be in that position, suspecting but not knowing, I'd be grateful to be told. Don't get me wrong I may lose my cool if I was ever in that situation but I'd hope I'd see sense if the girl involved told me she had no clue he was married,after all its not her fault he lied is it, she'd have been duped and hurt just as much as me!