its about embracing being different, thats why i love it!
I liked this movie.
i think it doesnt speak to the mainstream. Its not really a rom com as such, i think its a movie for those who arent mainstream themselves, it speaks to their differences and tells them 'dont change. Not ever. for anyone' that is what i love about it.
if your the kind of person that feels constantly that you just dont quite fit in and that people take your little eccentrcities as annoyances and go so far as to tell you to change who you are (which when thought about is an awful thing to say 'why cant you be normal'), then this is a film to be embraced.
I think wrapping it up as a romcom was the mistake and that is why there was such a negative backlash to it. But if you can watch it and not think about the romcom, it can be quite life affirming (mock me if you will).
I truly loved it.