My comments on this interesting film
The scene with the children asking if the two women should be enemies played out so well. Since the kids weren't "getting it" when Nasira tried to explain to them that she and Rochel were not automatic enemies, Rochel came up with a good lesson plan for them.
I started feeling sorry for Rochel when she was not finding a suitable partner. She was being pressured by her mother and the matchmaker. I wonder what would have happened if Nasira had not intervened? Because she was having problems, Rochel started questioning the traditions, and thinking that perhaps she would have to leave the faith. I started thinking, what if marriage was not for her? She had a choice not to choose a particular man, but could she have chosen not to get married, at least not then? Would her little sister have paid the price for this?
I was happy that Nasira was able to be honest with her father. I think that he was telling her to look past the first man's outward appearance in order to hear what Nasira REALLY thought of the man. How they had nothing in common. The father learned that Nasira was not being shallow, she sincerely did not think that the man was suitable for her.
I could feel Rochel's embarassment at having to ask her friend to leave at her mother's insistence. That must have been part of the reason why she had been considering leaving.
SPOILER AHEAD!!
At the end, when I saw the women sitting on the bench, I was wondering if the two women were still working outside the home. I was glad that they had remained friends.
-The Divine Ms Slim
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