The most realistic movie I've ever seen

I live in Norway and this movie was exactly like watching my mom and dad when I was a child. Almost as if it was made with my family in mind. I will recommend this movie to everyone I know, so that they can get a glimpse into my childhood. I ofcourse know how it is for the children, as I have experienced it myself, and I can say the children are the victims too. It's not only unfair towards the father, but also as much towards the children. How people can be so blind they don't see this, is a mystery to me.