Beautiful wife

I don't understand what the problem is with Ally and Sonya's husband's, If my wife looked like ether one I would love to see them naked and want to make love to them every night, so what I see in this show is that the two husbands don't really love there wives that much, but are afraid to leave them or be alone. And they get mad that the wife is talking about it with someone else because there afraid that the wife will notice this and leave them themselves..