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Shame on San Francisco


Really you guys - put up a barrier.

What shocked me the most when I was watching this film was how quickly people jump how easy the option is, just up, over, gone. You would think they would put a barrier up like they have @ the Empire State Building. I remember reading the article that inspired the film when some people tried to take up the cause the city freaked out and did not want it. Its just sad. I understand that if someone has made there mind up to end it all it's most likely going to happen but no reason to make it easy. Dr.Kevorkian tried and got jail time for it. Come of Frisco protect the people.

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I agree... It's sad that they've undertaken numerous constructions on and around the bridge in the name of public safety, yet they can't construct a barrier to protect the mentally ill?

Yes, if someone is especially intent on killing themselves, they will probably go through with it. But if there's a barrier, there's a good chance they might change their mind or try another method of killing themselves that would be less likely to succeed.

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Disagree totally.

You can't have beautiful, monumental, architectural structures surrounded by suicide barriers. If someone wants to kill themselves they will, simple as. 99.99% of us appreciate them as something awesome and life-affirming.

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Agree. And to the people above what? What you want people to have a harder more painful way out? The way you worded that seems like you want people to suffer when the die? And to the other ways they most likely wont succede? You want them to suffer afterwords?

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a thought occured into my head that a glass or plastic(whichever) gaurd around the platform below the railing would most likely help to stop jumpers, and would preverve the beauty of the bridge?

but like the post above, it would probably be to costly for the little people it would save, and there would probably be more that feel it would take away from the bridge's natural beauty

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Would it make all you bleeding hearts feel any better if the bridge jumpers ran in front of trucks on the thruway? Or maybe just took a header off one of the rooftops in the city? Quit yer whinin'.

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Hey markella992000, your response makes me wonder why you watched the film. Did you get a thrill from watching them jump, like it's Faces of Death or something? Oh and what's the opposite of a bleeding heart? Congestive heart failure? I'd rather have *a* heart than NO heart.

I'm not saying I have an answer, but considering how these bridge suicides are romanticized by some, and indeed this film made 24 of them "immortal", and it's the #1 suicide location in the world, why shouldn't we at least *try* to brainstorm on possible solutions?

And I'm not saying you don't have good points. It's just the way you say it sounds very callous.

And what about the potential hazards and stress for people who witness the suicides and especially those who try to prevent them?

And what about the hazards and *costs* of the anti-suicide patrols and clean-up crews?

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It would cost millions to raise the height of the railings and saving the lives of 24 people a year, (mostly losers in the eyes of the taxpayers), just isn't worth it to most people.

It won't save the lives of 24 people, it will just make them find another way to kill themselves.

If Jimmy cracked corn and no one cares, why is there a song about it?

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That's a fairly cruel assumption of how San Francisco residents view these deaths.
If a someone wants to commit suicide, they should have the opportunity to do it the way they want to. And if they put up plexi-glass, it would just get graffitied, and if they put up that or anything else, the thousands of people that enjoy the bridge everyday wouldn't be able to see clear over it.

Why ruin the bridge and it's beauty, because some people want to end their life by flying? You can't ban knives and bathtubs because people slit their wrists in the tub. It's silly to prevent suicides that way. If you are concerned that too many people end their lives, then maybe you should volunteer on a suicide hotline. These people need to feel they have something to live for, and if you don't think it's important to offer that help, but instead just want to build a higher wall, then you are missing the point and thinking of this too mechanically and not emotionally.

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When I first read your opening line, I thought it was directed at me, then I was like, whoa, what did I write here a year ago! But yeah, I agree, people will just find another way to kill themselves.

If Jimmy cracked corn and no one cares, why is there a song about it?

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DisturbedPixie, you are exactly right.

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Hitting that water is like getting hit by a car...not so fun or painless.

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I totally agree with you. The Golden Gate is probably the most beautiful bridge I've ever seen. Not only would putting up a barrier cost millions of dollars, people who are suicidal will find a way to end their life regardless. You cannot blame the city of San Francisco for someone else's misery. Should you cut down every tree because someone can hang him or herself from it? Should you ban all gas stoves so a suicidal person doesn't pull a Sylvia Plath? San Francisco is not the problem.

I know that the city has discussed putting up barriers and nets and it would cost btw. 50 and 100 million dollars.



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Actually statistically that's not true.

"Unless Alpert's covered in bacon grease, I don't think Hugo can track anything."

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"99.99% of us appreciate them as something awesome and life-affirming."

Huh, that's weird, I don't remember taking part in this worldwide survey you mention. Could you direct me to where I could view the evidence for that statistic? Oh, wait, you're just talking out your ass.

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this is a really narrow point of view...have you ever thought about the fact that you just cant lay a barrier on the golden gate simply because of the consistant 60mph winds that engulf it... not to mention the added weight stress on the bridge...things like this arnt just some easy fix... some have even estimated a new barrier would cost anywhere from $40million to $120million....so before you go and jump to conclusions give it a rational thought

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That's a good point. Personally, I think the original poster should start a fund to pay for it, and invite the other "pro-barrier" people to help contribute to the construction of one. Then you'll see how much they really care about this issue.

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I doubt that a barrier would cost as much as that. The bridge already has barriers. The issue is to raise them from approximately 4 feet to 8 feet.
At any rate, it would be a once off cost. How much cost is incurred on a yearly basis due to the suicides? Launching the retrieval vessels, the coroners costs, the bad publicity etc etc. I sure the cost of not errecting a barrier is also higher than any of us could imagine. Barriers have been seen to work in other locations. Its the responsible thing to do in my opinion.

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What makes the difference if they kill themselves by jumping into traffic instead? You want walls between all side walks and roads? You want knives to be purchased after a psych evaluation or with a cool off period?

I think this is clearly a problem of wanting suiciders to stay at home and not come out to public place to kill themselves. If it's just in their bathrub, you wouldn't think to put cameras in bathtubs to catch all possible suicide victims. It's unreasonable to prevent death that way, and barriers only allows us to not see what's going on. Gives us a false sense of what happens everyday. Just because people don't jump off the empire state building because of those cages, doesn't mean they aren't in pain at home and slicing their wrists.

They will do it some other way. You can't stop them with as 8 ft wall. You can only stop them, from caring about them and being there for them. Even that doesn't always help. Some people just want to end life on their own terms.

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and why do you care about the people that jump off it? not too mention,they could just use any other bridge in the bay area, or a gun, or pills, or a rope...the list goes on. this would be about as good as the frog tunnel in davis,california.


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Slacr1 take a read of this, quoted from The New Yorker, it's about a mother finding out a bit more about her 14 year old daughters death;

"When Milligan examined her daughter’s computer afterward, she discovered that Marissa had been visiting a how-to Web site about suicide that featured grisly autopsy photos. The site notes that many suicide methods are ineffective (poison is fatal only fifteen per cent of the time, drug overdose twelve per cent, and wrist cutting a mere five per cent) and therefore recommends bridges, noting that “jumps from higher than . . . 250 feet over water are almost always fatal.” Milligan bought the proprietor of the site’s book, “Suicide and Attempted Suicide,” and read the following sentence: “The Golden Gate Bridge is to suicides what Niagara Falls is to honeymooners.” She returned the book and gave the computer away."

So as you can see there is a greater chance of dying from jumping off a bridge as opposed to various other methods you have mentioned and the way I see it is, the greater the chance of dying the lesser the chance of survival (correct me if I'm wrong).

Scourged take a read of these two other snippets from another part of the same article above, it proves that barriers do prevent suicide;

"The Empire State Building, the Duomo, St. Peter’s Basilica, and Sydney Harbor Bridge were all suicide magnets before barriers were erected on them. So were Mt. Mihara, a volcano in Japan (more than six hundred people jumped into it in 1936 alone); the Arroyo Seco Bridge, in Pasadena; and the Eiffel Tower. At Prince Edward Viaduct, in Toronto, the site of nearly five hundred fatal jumps, engineers just finished constructing a four-million-dollar “luminous veil” of stainless-steel rods above the railing. At all of these places, after the barriers were in place the number of jumpers declined to a handful, or to zero."

If barriers are put up, it will either significantly reduce the amount of deaths on the bridge or perhaps even stop them completely.
You may say they will find another way to suicide, however there is also evidence that this is not true see here;

"A familiar argument against a barrier is that thwarted jumpers will simply go elsewhere. In 1953, a bridge supervisor named Mervin Lewis rejected an early proposal for a barrier by saying it was preferable that suicides jump into the Bay than dive off a building “and maybe kill somebody else.” (It’s a public-safety issue.) Although this belief makes intuitive sense, it is demonstrably untrue. Dr. Seiden’s study, “Where Are They Now?,” published in 1978, followed up on five hundred and fifteen people who were prevented from attempting suicide at the bridge between 1937 and 1971. After, on average, more than twenty-six years, ninety-four per cent of the would-be suicides were either still alive or had died of natural causes. “The findings confirm previous observations that suicidal behavior is crisis-oriented and acute in nature,” Seiden concluded; if you can get a suicidal person through his crisis—Seiden put the high-risk period at ninety days—chances are extremely good that he won’t kill himself later."

If the oppurtunity is taken away, or significantly reduced, from people wanting to suicide there is going to be a reduced number of deaths, as people learn to deal with various stresses and traumatic experiences in their lives, they learn to overcome the thought they once had of suicide.

I strongly agree with the original poster and although the topice you have raise may not be controllable by the majority of San Fransisco dwellers, I think there should be more knowledge and understanding of the subject as it seems the general public do not want to have to face anything to do with mental illness and I believe this due to the lazy, gutless and shallow attitude of the government when it comes to educating people about these issues.

Twas a long post, however Scourged, Slacr1and anyone else with similar view points, I hope you had the time to read this, as it seems you don't know everything about the very broad subject and situation at hand.

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People who are suicidal are going to end their life. I had a friend who was suicidal, his mother called the police, he ended up being baker acted and you know what he did as soon as he was release? He got a gun and blew his brains out. His note said that being in a mental hospital just affirmed his belief that he could no longer live in this world.

So quit your whining. You can't save the world. Deal with it.



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Eliza, I was going to have a personal attack at you, however I figured that wouldn't change your thoughts on the subject. However, *start attack on majority of modern societies beliefs*, it's attitudes like yours that make people with mental illnesses think, there is no way they can survive, while the majority of society believes they don't have a place in this world.

Please remember mental illness is a disease, people with this illness do not choose to have it, much like people with cancer don't choose to have cancer! Do you think it's fair to say, "Well these people with cancer are most likely going to die anyway, why don't we put them out of their misery and kill them now, as it will save us tax payers some money!"

There are some nasty illnesses out there, and i think it is wrong, that people with mental illnesses are looked so down upon, where people with alot of other illnesses are treated like royalty just because they still think "normally".

My two cents.

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Life is a challenge...for anyone! Incidentally, two months ago my 23 year old nephew downed ambien and benadryl with alcohol, then swam out into the Gulf of Mexico and drowned himself.

I am pissed at him. Suicide is a copout. Life is not supposed to be easy, otherwise what's the point? Since I originally posted to this board, I watched my mom die of cancer as I held her hand (and, incidentally, I would rather she WAS put out of her misery as opposed to suffering as greatly as she did in the end), I was unemployed, didn't have a place to live, lost my cat of 14 years, lost my nephew to suicide, lost another cat to a rare kitten disease. Get my point? LIFE is a big pain in the ass sometimes.

I live north of San Francisco. How easy it would be for me to drive to the GG bridge and jump off. Believe me, I have pondered how easy it would be if I just killed myself. Life is hard!

So should the city of San Francisco (in the bankrupt state of California) put a net underneath the GG because I might jump off the bridge? If the bridge wasn't there, I'd find some other way of doing it.

I agree that mental illness is a disease but I feel that too many people tack the phrase "mental illness" on anything that evokes any type of emotion. It's okay to be emotional. It's okay to be sad. In fact, it's normal! But rather than accept these emotions and work towards a better state of mind, doctors prescribe pills. Conditions like Paranoia, schizophrenia, biopolar disorder merit some sort of medication but depression is normal and those who resort to suicide are weak.






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Just because SOME people will be determined to kill themselves whether or not there is an easy method (the bridge) available doesn't mean EVERY person who has jumped off the bridge would have killed themselves some other way.

Some suicides are people who struggle with lifelong mental illness and will never stop looking for a way out. Others are young people dealing with temporarily severe depression, or people living through difficult situations. They might fling themselves off a bridge in a period of hopelessness and desperation, but delaying their suicide (eg by removing quick and easy methods like the bridge) can actually buy them time to recover and live normal lives.

Even if only a tiny percentage of bridge suicides could be saved by putting up barriers, wouldn't it be worthwhile?

Also, I'm sorry that your friend died, but that's not a reason to make blanket declarations about every suicidal person, or depression/antidepressants like in your next post. Plenty of people are seriously depressed or suicidal for some period, recover with the help of time and/or antidepressants, and go on to live normal lives.

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Firstly, let's pretend that you're right, and that putting a barrier around the Golden Gate bridge would reduce the number of suicides in the US: I'm curious to know why you think you have the right to stop people from killing themselves if, after careful reflection, they decide that suicide is the best option for them?

Our life belongs to us - my life belongs to me, not to you, and why should you grant yourself the right to tell me what to do with my body?

Violet


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Firstly, I just thought I'd jump on the bandwagon and start my sentence by saying firstly.
Secondly, FreshKosoe, I thought your post not only showed an intelligent thought process but humour and wisdom also. I'm not sure if you agree with what I had said earlier, howver you at least show knowledge and understanding about the topic at hand.
And to finish off, Violet, deep down in my heart, or brain, I truly believe that no one in this world truly wants to die. If you've seen the movie or had a talk with anyone that has attempted or contemplated suicide you would know that alot of people have pulled out at the very last second, because they think, "wait a second, I don't want to die, I don't want to put my family through that, I can come out of this, there is so much more to live for in life". Call me selfish, but if putting up barriers does prevent someone from suicide, then I am happy, because as I've said, no one and I mean no one in this world truly wants to die, I will structure that sentence differently, which might help you understand. Everyone and I mean everyone in this world wants to or wishes to, live a happy life! Happy for someone, could mean something completely different to what me and you think of the word, however everyone wants to be happy. And that is where people who are thinking about suicide go wrong, they know they want to be happy, however they just can't see how they will ever be happy again and that is what goes wrong for them.

Sorry for the repetition of truly, however I think each one was needed.


"Firstly, let's pretend that you're right, and that putting a barrier around the Golden Gate bridge would reduce the number of suicides in the US: I'm curious to know why you think you have the right to stop people from killing themselves if, after careful reflection, they decide that suicide is the best option for them?

Our life belongs to us - my life belongs to me, not to you, and why should you grant yourself the right to tell me what to do with my body?

Violet"



Firstly, if you say firstly, you need a secondly. That's just how it works. Secondly, were not talking about abortion. A protective barrier would prevent people from breaking the law. Yes, it is against the law to attempt suicide. Preventing people from jumping from the bridge, believe it or not, is in the interest of the safety of others. It is disruptive and potentially dangerous to motorists, other pedestrians, the boats below, and obviously the jumper. Freedom and autonomy does not mean that we allow people to scamper around everywhere jumping off any national monument just because your "life belongs to you." And lastly, if the City of San Francisco puts a protective barrier along the pedestrian walkway on the Golden Gate Bridge are you seriously going to say straight faced that they are telling you what to do with your body? You really need to rethink your response, Violet.

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Call me selfish, but if putting up barriers does prevent someone from suicide, then I am happy
Well, I wasn't about to make any catty comments, but since you invite me to call you this, I will do so respectfully; I think that that statement, and the mindset behind it, is incredibly selfish. If you were to get your way, you would force YOUR belief system on other people... I don't seek to force people to suicide, but you try to force others to live when we don't want to.

I truly believe that no one in this world truly wants to die. If you've seen the movie or had a talk with anyone that has attempted or contemplated suicide you would know that alot of people have pulled out at the very last second, because they think, "wait a second, I don't want to die, I don't want to put my family through that, I can come out of this, there is so much more to live for in life".
There is a flinching at the last minute, but that isn't due to a change of mind, it is a body action, like jerking one's hand away from heat, etc.

Personally, I do want to die, but I've tried a couple of times now, and woken up (pills), experienced great pain (slit wrists) or bruised and sore throat (hanging), yet I'm still here, living a life I never asked to be born into, and had to deal with the incredibly devastating thing that it is to wake up after I've done everything to finally end this thing.


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Please understand, I'm not trying to have a go at you here. You can call me what you will I will cop it on the chin, you are completely right to have your own beliefs, and I believe I should have the same rights as you.

FreshKosose already touched on the subject and I believe brought up a good point, "if the City of San Francisco puts a protective barrier along the pedestrian walkway on the Golden Gate Bridge are... they... telling you what to do with your body"

So I don't believe I'm actually getting my way, and I don't believe I'm forcing a belief system on anyone. I believe the meaning of force is actually "violence, compulsion, or constraint exerted upon or against a person or thing", quoted from the Webster dictionary, so by putting up a protective barrier I don't believe I am forcing anyone to do anything.

"There is a flinching at the last minute, but that isn't due to a change of mind...", Sapphire I agree with you whole heartedly with that statement, It isn't due to a change in mind, it's because people as an instinct always want to live, it's called self preservation.

Please ask yourself this, would you prefer to die sad and lonely, or live happilly and loved?

Although I may sound like I'm preaching and maybe I am, I'm not a religious person, far from it infact, I'm an aethiest, however, Sapphire, I hope you do find happiness and live a long loving life.

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let if be, these people will find a way. It truly is not up to us to decide to tell people they have no right to end their lives. Some people have pain aside from pyhsical. Why put a barrier, it is a known fact that the suicidal that are serious will do it again. Many will do it by other means. the cost of putting up a barrier would be better spent on a crisis center at the bridge to counsel people, meds available, psychologists there. With no payment. That would be better spent than a stupid net. Have you read that within six months that most people did it again and with success. You are wrong about the time frame. We have no right to tell people not to or too do it. We do have an obligation as a society to help these people. Not have them taken to jail and released 48 hours later only to try again. We need to have a center for the would be jumpers with meds, and staff to help. Not a barrier. It does not stop them. Someone wanting to die will die, within that year. Of course years later they who have survived say this. Time changes all but at that depressive time, they will try again and do it. So why not spend that money which is in the millions on counseling and meds and support. Then if that does not work, let them do it. what else can u do, lock them up??? and let them have a means to. Alot of suicides are by suicide by cops killing them, auto accidents, etc. which kills others. Or do you want them to poison themselves and be crippled or shoot themselves and be the same. I have an uncle who did this, he is unable to move from the neck down. He has had to be taken care of all his life. He was a millionaire, good life, good family. No one knows why he did it. But he was revived twice. He finally did it with a gun. But just blew part of his head off. Now is a burden on all. So what should we as a nation do. try try try, but in the end, its up to the person. Building a net is stupid. Build a network first.

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Kitten, firstly I'm sorry to hear about your uncle, that is very sad. Could you please however tell me where you got the following so called "facts" from and to validate them with links or references?

"it is a known fact that the suicidal that are serious will do it again" - By this I think you mean "it is a known fact that some who has attempted suicide and survived, will try again." - Please show me evidence!

"the cost of putting up a barrier would be better spent on a crisis center at the bridge to counsel people, meds available, psychologists there" - There are already people patrolling the bridge, if they see someone looking suspicious they will go and talk to them and call for appropriate help if needed. I don't think it would be a very good idea in my opinion for meds and psychologists to be on hand at the bridge 24/7, this would cost an absolute fortune in the long run.

"Have you read that within six months that most people did it again and with success." - No Please tell me where I can read this.

"We have no right to tell people not to or too do it." - Correct in theory, however, with your following sentence you state "We do have an obligation as a society to help these people." How can we help someone if they don't want to be helped, without having to tell them what they are doing is wrong?

"Not have them taken to jail and released 48 hours later only to try again." - Agreed that is not a smart move, however correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't believe that happens, I believe they would be taken to a crisis centre and monitored for some time, until the doctor/psychiatrist looking after them, saw fit for them to leave.

"Someone wanting to die will die, within that year" - Reference please?

"Of course years later they who have survived say this" - Care to elaborate?

"Building a net is stupid. Build a network first." - I don't believe a net would be the answer either, I believe a barrier would do a better job, but i'll use the word net to keep with your wording. If the net is built after the network, how can a network be built at all for the people who are serious about jumping.

Also I think you probably missed my earlier posts, please take a moment to read them I think you will find them interesting.

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And lastly, if the City of San Francisco puts a protective barrier along the pedestrian walkway on the Golden Gate Bridge are you seriously going to say straight faced that they are telling you what to do with your body?


I hope you're not seriously going to claim that, in order for such a barrier to be erected, money is not going to have to be taken from people who don't deserve to have money taken from them. It seems that everyone who advocates a suicide barrier conveniently forgets that the money for such a barrier has to come from somewhere (hint: the taxpayers). Frankly, I'm tired of having of having my pocket picked, so how about this:

Everyone in favor of a suicide barrier gets a year to get together, pool their own money with that of other, like-minded people, and get construction started. After all, if the suicide barrier is such a worthy cause, they should have no problem convincing people to fund it, right? If, however, at the end of a year they can't raise enough money, everyone has to shut up about it once and for all because it's obvious that any kind of widespread support just isn't there. People do, after all, reach into their own pockets (as opposed to the pockets of others) and pay for stuff that they think is important; a suicide barrier is no exception.

I'm tired of all of this "SF should put up a barrier" crap when it's painfully obvious the people who say such a thing haven't a clue as to the state of finances of the City of SF, let alone California at large. Therefore, if you want to see a barrier put up, you (and people who feel the same way you do) can reach into your own pockets and fund the thing. Stop trying to get other people to pick up the tab for something that you (and only you) feel strongly about.

You believe in it, you pay for it.

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I'm curious to know why you think you have the right to stop people from killing themselves if, after careful reflection, they decide that suicide is the best option for them? Our life belongs to us - my life belongs to me, not to you, and why should you grant yourself the right to tell me what to do with my body?

Why should someone have the right to kill themselves in front of other people in a public spot without any consideration for others who were there for a peaceful, positive experience and do not want to share in somebody else's morose morbidity? I'd rather people didn't commit suicide at all, but if one must, then they can do so without being so morbid as to end their lives in front of everybody else, including tourists who brought their children. Since some lack the basic courtesy (due to mental illness or selfishness or whatever) to consider this on their own, a barrier will have to do.

Therefore, nobody's interfering with anyone else's so-called "right" to kill themselves. Barrier supporters just don't want anyone doing it on the bridge which would prevent negatively affecting unsuspecting people with someone else's suicidal mess.

Oh, and by the way, this statement:
living a life I never asked to be born into

You may feel this way now, but the truth is none of us really know what's waiting for us on the other side. What if you successfully get there by your own hand and find out it's nothing like you thought, that your problems still exist, and the only way out is through them? What if cutting out early makes things more difficult for you instead of easier? Be your own best friend instead of your own worst enemy. (I encourage you to read the book Suicide: What Really Happens in the Afterlife?, by Klimo and Heath. May seem weird, but what do you have to lose?)

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shame on u, u tourist. Upsetting the tourists. Get a life. shame on you for your blatant ingorance of depression and pain
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As of late people are walking on train tracks and committing suicide by getting struck by the oncoming train. Should all trains also have fences along them?
The issue here is not safety. The issue is suicide. If the city installs a barrier and the barrier does not work, the city is now liable a could be forced to pay millions for a wrongful death suit. They have installed prevention phones and they have CHP bicycle patrols on the bridge. Besides, with all the people on the bridge a potential jumper could be pulled off as soon as the try to climb up the rail just by a passerby.

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It is stupid to ruin a beautiful and historic structure like the bridge, that millions of people enjoy, for the 24 or so desperate jerks per year who decide to use it to end it all. It's easy to jump off my apartment building too, I don't hear my city crying for a barrier. LEAVE THE GOLDEN GATE ALONE!



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It is stupid to ruin a beautiful and historic structure like the bridge, that millions of people enjoy, for the 24 or so desperate jerks per year who decide to use it to end it all. It's easy to jump off my apartment building too, I don't hear my city crying for a barrier. LEAVE THE GOLDEN GATE ALONE!


I wholeheartedly agree. Instead of spending money on a barrier which would ruin the bridge for the rest of us, that money could be spent on a crisis center where people could talk if they wished: anonymously, no questions asked, without fear of psychiatric commitment, psychiatric drugging, and most importantly without fear of being tagged with a psychiatric diagnosis (which can ruin your life forever).

I am all for using any legitimate options available to try to give a person hope to live (involuntary commitment and drugging are not legitimate options). However, if someone has exhausted all other options and decides that his or her life is still an intolerable burden, then who am I to tell such a person that they must continue to exist? Seriously.

To the do-gooders that say otherwise, have some self-honesty here: you are not motivated a desire to help the suicidal person, but rather a selfish desire to bolster your own self image.

Back off.

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You'll never reply, but I find it curious/odd that people who oppose the barrier have to be so callous towards those of us who support it. You want to undermine our attempts & to diminish our care for these people, because you do not care them at all.


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Lots of people come here to San Francisco specifically to jump off the bridge. We need the tourist revenue.

Oh, you! Seriously now--check the Wikipedia bridge article to see the legitimate reasons the barrier hasn't gone up, and the proposed net to snag the jumpers.

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You'll never reply, but I find it curious/odd that people who oppose the barrier have to be so callous towards those of us who support it.


I don't think it's a matter of being callous. Instead, it's a matter of people who claim that they care demonstrating a marked unwillingness to put their money where their mouth is. As I pointed out earlier, people tend to pay for things that they value and keep their money in their pockets when confronted with something that they don't value. That, my friend, is how money works, and claiming otherwise is just plain silly.

If I understand correctly, a barrier has been approved using taxpayer money. IOW: money that could be used to, say, help the homeless or the unemployed (i.e. people who are struggling to live) is instead going to be used to help those who have demonstrated that they are more interested in dying than in living.

It's not hard to guess what's wrong with this picture.

So, if you really do care about the jumpers, you now have an opportunity to put your money where your mouth is:


The Metropolitan Transportation Commission, the agency that oversees transportation financing in the Bay Area, has approved $5 million in federal money for the final engineering and design of a steel mesh net hanging 20 feet below the span, to catch jumpers. However, officials estimate the net system will cost an additional $45 million to build and install. [emphasis mine]

When the plan was approved, district officials stipulated that the barrier could not be built using the money collected in bridge tolls, leaving the source unclear for the $45 million needed to complete the net. “We’ve found a solution that has minimal impacts visually and aesthetically,” Ms. Currie said. “Now it’s just about getting the remaining funding to build it.”


If you want to demonstrate just how much you care, doing so is simple: start up a private fund to raise the additional $45 million dollars needed to get the barrier constructed. After all, if a suicide barrier is something that is truly worth supporting, it won't be hard to get people to contribute to it, right?

My primary beef with barrier proponents is that they want to take from Peter to give to Paul, so speak. It is entirely reasonable to propose that if they feel so strongly about a barrier, (as opposed to merely paying it lip service, which costs them nothing) it's high time all the purportedly "caring" folks clubbed together and started making things happen as opposed to asking the rest of us to empty our pockets for something that we flat-out don't believe in and have no desire to see built.

Does that make sense? I hope so.

(Tip o' the fez to MosesHorwitz for the link to the NYT times article about the barrier.)

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The question is, do you want to prevent people from committing suicide, or just prevent them from doing it by jumping off the Golden Gate bridge?

The second effort could be achieved at the cost of millions of dollars, and ruining the beauty of the bridge. Since the jumpers who would be prevented from using the Golden Gate bridge could simply end their lives by any number of other methods (including choosing one of the other 7 bridges in the bay area to leap off, or walk in front of a bus or semi truck or train etc etc etc), erecting a barrier would be an exercise in futility.

Also, please consider that since people ARE GOING TO commit suicide, no matter what prevention methods are put in place, maybe it is better they choose a method such as the GG bridge since they won't harm anyone else. I'm all for barriers on tall buildings like the empire state since those jumpers will land on the streets and sidewalks, traumatizing or killing others. Not good.
Those that jump into traffic will cause crashes and other deaths.
Choose the train, and you traumatize the conductor, and whoever has to clean that up, not to mention making hundreds of people late for work.

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The question is, do you want to prevent people from committing suicide, or just prevent them from doing it by jumping off the Golden Gate bridge?

The second effort could be achieved at the cost of millions of dollars, and ruining the beauty of the bridge. Since the jumpers who would be prevented from using the Golden Gate bridge could simply end their lives by any number of other methods (including choosing one of the other 7 bridges in the bay area to leap off, or walk in front of a bus or semi truck or train etc etc etc), erecting a barrier would be an exercise in futility.

Also, please consider that since people ARE GOING TO commit suicide, no matter what prevention methods are put in place, maybe it is better they choose a method such as the GG bridge since they won't harm anyone else. I'm all for barriers on tall buildings like the empire state since those jumpers will land on the streets and sidewalks, traumatizing or killing others. Not good.
Those that jump into traffic will cause crashes and other deaths.
Choose the train, and you traumatize the conductor, and whoever has to clean that up, not to mention making hundreds of people late for work.

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It has been proven in other suicide hot-spots that a suicide barrier helped reduce the overall suicides in the area/city where it was located. After the barriers were enacted, no suicides were reported on these bridges & there was no spike in deaths in other parts of the city. There are other bridges besides the Golden Gate Bridge, e.g. Bay Bridge, but there are no reported suicides (that I'm aware of) from this bridge. It isn't drawing people in, it's not as beautiful, & it's not as historical for this very gruesome act.

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