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This is why I don't trust men....


Simply disgusting, the guys seem to be grown up kids who can't take responsibility for their own actions. If you want to get married and have kids do it but respect it, if you want to fool around don't marry anyone... If you don't like the person anymore get the balls to ask for a divorce. Not that hard is it?

As to the teenage girls... maybe that's why asian kids are beating us.

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Sexist and racist. Not bad, not bad.

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How is giving a compliment to asian kids being racist? They work hard and while our kids are out drinking themselves to death in parties or entertaining with those sort of soap operas about relationships, those kids are studying to be the best. And since they are the best they get our best jobs.

As to the sexist accusation if you feel ofended by what I said, maybe you have a guilty consciousness, nothing I can do about it.

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You aren't in "competition" with Asian kids. Yeesh.

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sometimes its good to be nerd like asian and of course I'm asian too, but not really nerd, movie enthusiast maybe. We still have a bad guy but not as bad as what western always depicted about how their teen is. No offense, I never go to any western country, I dont really know how their culture is except from what I saw on TV and movie. I guess movie just show everything that's actually happen in their respective country, it's easier that way. & Dont hate all men. There is some good guy exist though.

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Yes i hope so but before you find some nice guy you have to suffer.. A lot.. Lol

I usuly think asians have a special talent to math. Maybe it's genetic lol

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I guess you don't read the news because plenty of females are getting caught with teenage boys these days. It's actually nothing new. There was one teacher who got put in jail for having a relationship with her 12 year old student and when she was out of jail they got married.

Blood is thicker than water and much tastier!

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That barely has anything to do with this because in this case they were married and it's not only the fact than the girls were much younger than they were, but the fact that they cheated their wives. The girls being much younger only makes it a bit more disgusting because they are fathers so it's expected them to have a little bit of maturity and to know better than to have affairs with anyone.

And the fact is, in that case the woman married the boy, so its quite different there is emotional involvement and nobody was cheated on (of course it's still a crime, but if the boy felt hurt in any way he wouldn't marry the perpetrator).

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The woman who slept with the 12 year old was married and had like 2 or 3 kids. Her husband divorced her and she married the kid when she was released from jail. And all the other cases, most of the women were already married as well.

So stop with the double standards. There are tons of married women who cheat on their husbands with younger guys. It goes both ways.

Blood is thicker than water and much tastier!

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Didn't know that. I know it's true some women cheat on their husbands. But I think the opposite is much more common.

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It's much more common that men cheating on women makes the news or media, but in reality there isn't much of a difference.
Purely speculation, but maybe then men like to 'brag' about it more and the women keep it quiet. It would definitely fit certain stereotypes about both sexes.

And in reply to an earlier comment by you, about suffering before finding someone nice, then it's exactly the same the other way around. It's just as difficult for men as it is for women. This isn't some one sided thing.

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You make some good points about personal responsibility and being loyal to someone one has made a commitment to (I'd agree that if someone wants to continue to have fun casually, be up front about it and don't commit to someone else--well, unless that someone else is into it also I suppose). But statistically the number of male cheaters is only slightly larger than the number of female cheaters. Google it. In other words, you're displaying a clear bias against men that is undeserved and not indicative of reality, indicating you've had a personal experience that's colored your worldview, or your buying into stereotypes.

Your comment about Asian culture versus American culture has merit, however. Although highly superstitious, Asian cultures tend to include a more strongly embedded sense of discipline and respect for elders, while American culture has been steadily going downhill for decades. However, having been to Japan a number of times and with a son there married to a Japanese wife, I can tell you that younger Japanese folks are heavily influenced by American libertine qualities (both good and bad). So it's really just a matter of time (probably a number of decades) before there's not much of a difference on that front.
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Really? Its a movie.......do you realize more married females practice infidelity than men? Google all the female teachers caught sexing their high school students. These are just the ones found out.
So in your naive judgement, I would share your sentiments, only replace the men with women and your judgemental comments would be more accurate.
In the meantime, understand its a movie and this storyline is way over the top with no realistic interactions.

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Oh yeah, just so ya know Joana, one of my married high school teachers had sex with me five times in addition to three times blo@#ng me in her car.
So this is why we don't trust females.

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I don't think that "Googling cases of teachers who sleep with students" is the best way to find evidence that women cheat more than men, as you say in your previous post. Perhaps you ought to have tried harder to get an education from this teacher before you slept with her.

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If only life was that simplistic...



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You... You do understand that this is a movie, right? I could watch every episode of Snapped ever and say the same thing about women, and that's actually REALITY. Christ how did you remember to breathe long enough to write this post?

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Good one! i believe she's hired someone to hit her with a cattle prod every 5 seconds, to force her to gasp. A bonus is that it makes her clitoris tingle madly.

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Wonder what The OP is up to today

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