Hello,
I know it's been a while since you wrote this post, but I this is also a very important subject to me and I would like to weigh in.
I use both black and African-American to refer to the subject matter; mostly when I write, especially on internet forums such as this one (I use both interchangeably because I feel it would be redundant to keep repeating the same term over and over). I'm also an evangelical Christian. Thirty years ago, I came to faith in Jesus Christ. And I'm a historian of American studies. I'm proud to be an American and I love my country dearly. But as a historian, I have to be honest about its mistakes and shortcomings. This pretty much sums up my life. And in my life, it has become very apparent to me that criticism for issues concerning black people routinely gets singled out over and over again.
Before I go on, let me make it clear that I do not believe you are a racist. At least I don't believe so as I do not know you, except for the post you have written. In fact, I believe your opinion to be a legitimate concern among many white people today. And I certainly believe racism can go both ways and anyone can be a racist.
Anyway, to your question: why do blacks have to call themselves "African-Americans?" Well, I've thought a lot about this and I actually think it is very American to refer to yourself in the hyphenated term. Isn't it American to know your history? I mean, don't we appreciate those who have traced their roots or think that the 4th of July is more than just a picnic snd fireworks? Doesn't this history include knowledge of your personal heritage and ancestors? As someone else said, I've seen white people all of my life acknowledging their Irish, German, Greek, Polish, English or other European heritage. In fact, most of the time they don't even use the hyphen! They just say, "I'm Irish and German" or "I'm Italian." Why is that accepted and "African-American" is not? Why is Black History Month criticized as being divisive and separatist but nothing is said about St. Patrick's Day? St. Patrick never even set foot in this country and had nothing to do with America. All of these other months are acknowledged in this society and never receive the backlash Black History Month does:
* Asian Pacific American Heritage Month
* National Hispanic Heritage Month
* Jewish American Heritage Month
* Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual Transgender History Month
* Mongolian American Heritage Month
* Indian American Heritage Month
* National Tibetan American Heritage Month
* Puerto Rican Heritage Month
* Women's History Month
* Gay and Lesbian Pride Month
* National Disability Employment Awareness Month
(And don't forget the recent news of Virginia's "Confederate History Month." If that is not divisive- celebration of a rebellion to that sought to destroy the United States and preserve black slavery, I don't know what is.)
I really believe the reason many people have a problem with people referring to themselves as African-American is this: in two words, I think "African-American" says "I know my history. I know about the slavery, the segregation, the discrimination, the cruelties... I know it all." I can understand if that would be difficult for some people to deal with. But I'm blessed that I don't look back on those things and use them as a tool to hate white people. Some do, I'm definitely aware of that. But I believe most African-Americans do not; they simply want to know who they are and be respected. I believe it is absolutely important to know your history- all of it- for the obvious reasons: to remember those who brought us where we are today. To understand their motivations and sacrifices so we can make batter choices for our future.
And you also talked about black racism towards whites on TV. What shows do this? I'm not saying it does not exist. I've certainly seen bias that, if it were the other way around, many blacks would complain of racism, no question. Maybe it's the TV shows I watch, but I don't see a lot of black people calling whites racially-charged names on TV these days. Unless it were used in a historical context (and I feel the same about the n-word, which I do not use) then I can see the use of it; otherwise, it should not be on the air. And please- do not use TV and movies to try and figure out who black people are. the media is full of unfounded stereotypes. It really makes me sick that all some people know how to do is focus on the worst examples of black people- the "thugs" and "gangstas" rather than hard-working, responsible people.
Years ago, I saw a survey in Ebony magazine that asked a bunch of questions to guage the state of things for African-Americans/its readers. One of the questions it asked was, "White people a) Don't care about the black struggle; or b) Don't know about the black struggle." Those were the two choices with which to answer. It upset me that there was no option to answer that whites do care about the black struggle. But since I read that survey, I have to say that most white people I have met either do not know much of anything about black history or current experiences; or, they simply do not want to know and do not want to discuss it. Or if they do, they prefer to believe lies and falsehoods rather than see the truth for themselves. No question, race is a difficult issue... but the problem, whether it was created long ago by someone else, or whether we live with it today, will not fix itself. "Look, let's just not talk about it" does not work. Or "It's all their fault, they and they alone keep it going" just isn't true- both sides contribute to it; perhaps in different ways, but guilt and blame is on both sides.
Next point: is racism today powerless as you suggested? By that, I think you mean that can a black person go to the college they want, get the job they want, live where they want to live and marry whom they want to marry? I would like to think so. But we still hear at times about educational and job discrimination; and many people still have an oppositon to interracial marriage. I've heard people claim that it's natural to be with "your own kind" but I don't trust that to be true in a society founded on racial understandings. Maybe you can, but I can't think of any aspect of American life that has not been affected by race in some way. Put it like this: if slavery, segregation, discrimination etc. never existed- or let's just say that if black people had never even come to America at all- this country would be completely unrecognizeable. I have no doubt whatsoever about that.
Finally, I disagree with you- the IS an African-America. It exists whether we like it or not.
I saw it in the eyes of a white woman I had as a customer when I worked at a dating service. It was open to all people, but she happen to come on an afternoon when I was there as the employee and two black customers were there on their own business. She carefully asked me if the dating service was for her.
I heard it in the voice of the man I called whom I considered working for in helping write a book about his walking across the United States. I asked him if he walked the entire distance without a ride in a car etc; he told me- not realizing who he was talking to, that he took a ride in a car one time because when he got to a certain place (I forget, sorry) there were "too many young blacks" there for him to be around.
I saw it in the three Hispanic men who once walked by me with a threatening gesture. They pointed at me, motioned like they had a shotgun firing at me, laughed about it and walked away. I was in the same spot later when they came back, and they did it again.
I've also seen it in the all-black Church I used to attend and in the all-black high school I used to teach at. And you know what else? I think it is kind of hypocritical that while so many complained about President Obama's attending Reverend Wright's Church for 20 years (I'm not defending Wright or his Church), if that Church had not had the controversial sermons or an Afrocentric website- if it had just been a black Church, nothing would have ever been said about it at all. My issue is the all-black Church, period. I won't attend such a place again because my life is not all-black and I don't expect heaven to be, either.
All for now,
bryanac625
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