I agree that it's a bit of both. I laughed at a lot of it, but there were touching moments as well. I was very moved by Bernie's observations that part of being a man means accepting that your father is not perfect, but realizing that you can love him despite that. Things like this are the reason why I prefer British comedies (and to a lesser extent, Canadian comedies as well) to American ones. They don't have the "in-your-face, trying-too-hard" aspect of American laugh tracts.
But when the funny bits are there, they ARE very funny. Bernie and his dad driving home with the dog still on the hood of the car, Bernie writing to the Kray twins asking if they can supply a couple of "heavies" to act as bouncers at his bar mitzvah, trying to persuade a Scottish policeman to let Manny escape getting a speeding ticket because they're speeding "for England".
I wonder, though, if there were two levels of humour. I am of British descent, but not Jewish and I saw the film during a Jewish film festival. I noticed that at some points (i.e. when Bernie writes to the Krays) there were only a handful of people laughing. Everyone else laughed a few moments later, when the camera panned to the headline in the paper about the Krays escaping justice again. I think it was because most people did not realize that the Krays were on the wrong side of the law. There were other instances where I think you had to be familiar with Britain to get the humour. I'm thinking there must also have been parts where you have to be Jewish to get the joke, and I wonder how much of the humour I missed.
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