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hard to watch this movie as a guy


anytime something bad happens to somebody's balls, even if it's a fictional movie, i start to squirm and feel uncomfortable. it made watching the first 15 minutes of this movie extremely unpleasant.

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It's awful to watch for a girl too --- after all, the movie is about a maiming injury, which is not to me a topic for lighthearted banter. First of all, did it mention whether his attacker went to prison for mayhem? Plus a huge civil lawsuit filed against the perp as well for disfiguring and harming his victim.

But I really got off the train, so to speak when Barry behaved more as if he'd had a hemhorroidectomy after he discovered his injury. Then there was this issue of a really hateful, foul-mouthed, unstable and abusive girl who claimed to be carrying his child --- his attitude toward her is completely without credibility, to me. He doesn't seem to mind the verbal abuse let alone defend himself... but then look what he has endured without getting into much of a snit. He has such nonexistent self-esteem or boundaries, or whatever the psychobabble is, that he can't even normally defend himself. His "girl" is not going to suddenly morph into a sweetheart for the rest of her life, either. Her sour and vicious personality will re-emerge in time, and then Barry is going to have to divorce this creature and fight her for custody... I love dark comedy but this was not that to me. It's goody-goody, off-target Wonder Bread goofiness with everybody about an inch deep. My two cents.

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(Spoilers)

I disagree. Ginger may have a sour disposition, but her genuine love for Barry showed on the night of his birthday. Her tears were sincere and touching. Besides, the last five minutes of the movie suggest that motherhood has helped sooth and tame the prickly Ginger. The couple appear to be happy and contented.

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I think you misunderstood her. Her dress and attitude was all about driving people away to avoid being hurt. She probably always was a sweetheart.

Amy: I swear to God...I swear to God! That is NOT how you treat your human!

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What's the big deal he lost his balls not his penis.

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What's the big deal? Really?

Go ahead, make my day....

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"What's the big deal he lost his balls not his penis."

you must be a girl

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Or the typical interwebz teenager who has no idea what your balls are for.

Amy: I swear to God...I swear to God! That is NOT how you treat your human!

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Or the typical interwebz teenager who has no idea what your balls are for.

Amy: I swear to God...I swear to God! That is NOT how you treat your human!

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Definitely hard to watch, even in movies where it's supposed to be funny, it never is funny to me. It always hurts. Lol.

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