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Adrienne is immature...but also, bisexual.

posted 16 years ago by TrustYouToKillMe
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Now, the issue here is being catalyzed by this stupid photoshoot. Any bisexual woman knows, you cannot date men who can't deal with who you truly are. You also will find that some lesbians can be cruel and misunderstanding as well, so it's not just a "HATE ON MEN" thing. Some people just can't deal with bisexuality.

But being a bisexual woman, she needed to make sure before they got married that he wasn't truly a homophobe. And while Chris is a nice guy, the more mature of the two, he is clearly homophobic.

Most men love to see two women together. Some get annoyed when it is THEIR woman, but most of them would watch two hot chicks make out, any day of the week. Chris reacted with genuine anger and DISGUST.

He was completely revolted by the concept. I can understand that he's feeling jealous and a bit insecure what with how she parades it around in front of him. She needs to stop testing him.

But he needs to confront his homophobia. He said some very hurtful things that made me infuriated when they were arguing in bed. She should not have to feel like her relationships with women were "only when I was really messed up in the head."

I am only an outsider to their relationship, but that really ticked me off. Adrienne, stand up for who you truly are. Chris, if you can't take the heat...you shouldn't have married such a spicy woman. She should not have to apologize for who she is. She can apologize for WHAT SHE'S DONE WRONG. And seeing how she DIDN'T cheat on him...she has nothing to be sorry for.

Well, that certainly illustrates the diversity of the word.

[–] Jerdlimy 16 years ago

Adrianne could actually be a lesbian. However, she has cultivated this "I'm a badass hot sexy horny gorgeous party girl who can wrap men around my finger by using my sexuality" persona, based on male fantasy stuff like strippers and porn, which invariably use girl-on-girl themes. So she thinks that offering this fantasy show will help attract a man and make him pay attention to her. She wants the guys to brag to his friends about how wild she is and how she's the best sex ever, so hot, etc.

I think she believes that men are never satisfied with just one woman, and that she's not really the "ultimate fantasy sexpot" she prides herself on being without the girl-on-girl act. She may be insecure that she is not enough for her man and since he'll be looking at other women, she can at least maintain control by choosing and supervising the third party. Same thing with her wanting big breast implants. She's trying to be what she thinks men want.

Chris knows that she has long been using this showy "lesbianism" to try to titillate, manipulate and control men including him and he's irritated and grossed out by it.

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[–] TrustYouToKillMe 16 years ago

First off, I'm glad you're a gay rights activist. That's wonderful, and we need all the help we can get.

Second, I was in total agreement with Chris about the photos being inappropriate. But when they were sitting in bed, he was saying (I can't remember verbatim) how it turned his stomach and grossed him out.

Sure, he might be saying that about the visual of seeing her "cheating" on him. But really, his comments were toeing the line of being homophobic and saying that homosexuality is disgusting.

Oh, and I totally agree SHE is the one who said her relationships with women were messed up. It still irritated me, even if she said it.

And you can be bisexual and be in a straight relationship. If he felt she couldn't, that should have been worked out prior to marriage. Marrying someone doesn't solve all the problems. It attaches you legally to them. They have to be worked out beforehand, or else they just fester.

And no, I don't think it was cheating. It's offensive and irritating, but not cheating. No man would be stupid enough to take naked pictures of himself with another naked woman OR man and present them to his wife. But some of the time, straight men would have reacted like the horny little boys that they used to be, and loved the photos. Except Chris has a deeply set fear that she's going to cheat on him, leave him, because he thinks she's gay and because he's had that happen twice before. So for her to promote the idea was just stupid on her part.

Or...he could be a bit homophobic.

Well, that certainly illustrates the diversity of the word.

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[–] chainsaw_metal1 16 years ago

My birthday's at the end of the month, and I told my wife to feel free to make a book like this for me. I would have no problem seeing her with another woman.

As far as the show, I thought Chris' reaction DID come off as homophobic more than just jealousy. Honestly, after watching the first season, I thought he was an idiot for marrying her, mostly because she comes off as a psycho. But I really hope they never have kids, because I can't see their home being a good environment for children, unless they can cut the fighting way down.

[–] lilishirl9 16 years ago

My husband would hate if I posed with another woman like that. He wants me to "get off" with him only.

Anyway, I think Chris has been harboring resentment and insecurity over her, as he claims, constantly checking out women in the street saying "I'd *beep* her" and talking about her affairs with women in the past. She THOUGHT it turned him on, but he really sat silently thinking "I married a lipstick lesbian" (which he actually did say out loud after seeing those pix.

She is so full of it, too. She kept yelling at Chris about how those pix were tasteful and professional, but right before the shoot, she was all "i'm doing this so I can get down my friend's pants" and laughing about how she wasn't really doing it for Chris.

They are both going against their gut instincts about their relationship.

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[–] TrustYouToKillMe 16 years ago

Seeing your wife with someone else and not liking it doesn't make you homophobic. If you recall what I wrote, that what I said. But the way Chris reacted when talking about two women together seemed like he was dancing back and forth across that line.

I want to know how many bisexuals you hang out with on a regular basis. Since you seem to have a fixed opinion on how they function in a relationship. You didn't want to stereotype, but you did.

If you're in a solid relationship, finding someone else attractive isn't going to derail what you have. If you really think that every straight man is only turned on by his significant other, or every straight woman is only turned on by her man, you're mistaken.

Straight men check out other women even when they're in a relationship, even when they're happily married. It's normal to look. Normal to notice. It's not normal to act on it. Jealousy is a sign that something else is wrong. If you're that insecure with your relationship...there's a reason for it.

Now, saying, "Damn, I'd like to *beep* her" is really stupid. I would never do that to someone I loved; force them to listen to me say that. Taking naked photos with someone else is a delicate thing, and should only be done if you KNOW your partner will take it the right way. The problem here is, these two are a train wreck.

I get so tired of all the flack bisexuals get. I've slept with one person in my entire life and I'm 22. Yet, because I'm bisexual, I guess I'm going to flake off and go on a mad streak of sleeping around.

You didn't say that. I know. I just am taking out my annoyance on an online forum about an immature model and one of the ex-Brady's.

God, why do we watch this $hit.

Well, that certainly illustrates the diversity of the word.

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[–] cclub 16 years ago

People have an idea of bisexuals being promiscious and too free. I didn't say it.

Can Obama go to the bathroom without some idiot claiming he peed like an elitist?

[–] jlb5947 15 years ago

"But he needs to confront his homophobia"

I get so sick of you advocates for homosexuality. Just because someone finds homosexuality revolting or repulsive does not make them homophobic.

I find it disgusting but I also find heterosexual premarital sex revolting as well. God intended for us to be married to someone of the opposite sex, have sexual relationships with your spouse, and create children. Otherwise He wouldn't have made the male and female anatomy the way He did.

If he wanted girl on girl and man on man, He would have did that from the very beginning. He destroyed Sodom(ie. sodomy) and Gomorrah for crap like that.

I love Jesus and I would not advocate such unclean lifestyles. My only duty is to love the person and respect them but I sure as heck don't have to like and respect their lifestyles. I'm supposed to educate people on Jesus' sacrifice on the Cross and repentance for sins. Otherwise, I would be considered a hypocrite. You can't serve God and serve the uncleanliness in this world.

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[–] thelastpoet05 14 years ago

God intended for us to be married to someone of the opposite sex, have sexual relationships with your spouse, and create children.

Well, if the story of Jacob is any indication, God intended for us to have SEVERAL wives (preferably siblings), and we also have permission to screw the help as well (but since Jacob wasn't married to neither Bilhah NOR Zilpah, wouldn't that mean that he's an adulterer? Gotta love those Biblical contadictions!)

And what about people who CAN'T have children? Clearly God must believe in population control, in which homosexuality also serves a purpose.

He destroyed Sodom(ie. sodomy) and Gomorrah for crap like that.

*opens Bible*

Actually, Ezekiel 16:48-49 spells out exactly why Sodom was destroyed: "This is the sin of Sodom; she and her suburbs had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not help or encourage the poor and needy. They were arrogant and this was abominable in God's eyes."

Didn't see any mention of homosexuality there, nor is homosexuality mentioned in ANY reference to Sodom and Gomorrah throughout the Bible. Even in the Book of Genesis where the story of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah is originally recounted, the ONE sexual act that is mentioned (when the men of Sodom swarm Lot's house) is in reference to RAPE.

I love Jesus and I would not advocate such unclean lifestyles. My only duty is to love the person and respect them but I sure as heck don't have to like and respect their lifestyles. I'm supposed to educate people on Jesus' sacrifice on the Cross and repentance for sins.

Then you might want to do your research into what Jesus did and did not label as "sin." Here's a hint: homosexuality is on the "did not label" list.

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