LaPaglia's character...



Hi!!! Can someone help me out here??? since I haven't seen the film yet...

I watched the trailer and there is a scene where after Rossellini's character tells her husband that she wants the separation, Leo appears it what is to be Patteniere's bedroom, sitting in her bed with a strange 'look'; well, after that, Patteniere is crying and tells her mom: "Can't you see what he's doing to me??"

Here comes my question... does Leo (LaPaglia) abuses her daughter??? Or is she talking about someone else??? I know that Leo is surprised at her sexual burgeoning but did he take it beyond that?? beyond those lustful gapes??

Thanks in advance!!

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thought i heard the same thing, but i saw the show yesterday and what she actually says is "can't you see what it's doing to me" in the film.....she is referring to her parents marital problems

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You're right, Cayres1234, re: the quote, but the film is vague about the exact nature of the father/daughter relationship. When the brother returns and first sees his sister, he asks her if she's let their father see much, and she minimalizes the issue. Their dialogue suggests they share an awareness that the father has some sort of inappropriate sexual interest, or at least arousal, in his daughter. And while the context strongly implies the inclination hasn't been acted on, we can't really be sure. Perhaps the daughter is keeping the extent of the truth from her brother.

In a later kitchen scene, the father hugs his daughter strongly, even forcefully, for an uncomfortably long time. She doesn't respond because he's trapped her arms within his own. Later, after he has come to a somewhat clearer understanding of his personal difficulties, he speaks to her while sitting on his bed, and awkwardly apologizes for (I paraphrase) inappropriately seeking too much reliance from her. I think the context here is much clearer and suggests that the sexual urge has remained essentially latent. The whole thing remains foggy, like so much of this film. That isn't always a negative, but there are a number of narrative developments here that don't seem sufficiently connected to the main arc of the story, and that can leave the film feeling disjointed.

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I didn't read any of that into the script. None. I think sometimes people see what they WANT to see, based on the shocking and sensational. I have seen the movie twice and the implication of any kind of sexual abuse is simply not there.

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I just saw this on dvd and was quite confused myself about the father's relationships with his children, that is until i watched the commentary in which the writer/director cleared up the matter. He was not abusing his daughter. For a minute there I almost believed he had been abusing his son as well. He hadn't. He was a lost man whose son was lost in the same place. Hopefully, the father and son will open their communication at last, right there on the roof and save each other. Great movie, but hard to watch.

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Hey, if you think this was a good film, would you please write a review and post it on the main page? The user review that is currently there is terrible (both it terms of writing and in terms of its opinion of the film).

This cast sounds very good and, although I have not seen the film yet, I certainly plan to see it soon on DVD.

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I thought the film was (deliberately?) letting the audience think that the father was sexually abusing his daughter (I was wondering that throughout the first half) but then it becomes clear that it's more that the father is depending on his daughter too much *emotionally* - that the mother is unhappy and unavailable emotionally and the father is forcing his daughter to grow up too fast and be a partner to him, e.g., she's only in HS but attends her father's college lectures instead of going to the mall with her friends, which she would clearly prefer to do. It was very interesting, much more so than the more typically-presented scenario of sexual abuse.

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These kind of themes are common.

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