Grooms

Why does my Fiancé think that I, the Groom has no say so in the up coming nuptials and reception? For some reason she thinks that it's only her day but I'm pretty sure I'm going to be there also, spending money, wearing colors that I don't like, eating food that I seem to have no choice in and the number of invited guest, along with the venues. She's calling me a Groomzilla. If that's the term she wants to use, fine but I need input into everything that's going on. I cannot sit back and let people tell her what to do just so she can tell me bits and pieces at her convenience. Sorry but I'm not a "yes" man. I have thoughts and ideas that need to be discussed or I may create my own show "Groomzillas" starring yours truly!