Not convincing at all


They didn't look like 4 depressive people who would commit suicide.
I lost my interest after the roof scene, and stopped paying attention after the scene where they met in the car.

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Many people that killed themselves didn't look like they were going to.

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I felt that way when Robin Williams killed himself. Sad...

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I'm discovering that it's largely just me, but if you really paid attention to Robin Williams in all the behind the scenes/non-movie/non-tv stuff you can kinda see the depression.

It was maybe my least shocking celebrity suicide. Saddest, but least shocking.




Clever people will recognize and tolerate nothing but cleverness.

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I had absolutely zero shock. You could see how he was a month before on TMZ. He'd already checked out.

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True, there's the popularized "look" of the depressed person. But sometimes, in my experience, the most pathologically depressed person can be the most cheerful, bubbly people to be around. It's a valid way to deflect attention, almost to the extent where they can distract themselves from their depression.

Kinda like a sad drunk who just want the party to keep going until sunrise.

What I find non-convincing is the attitudes of all the people. Sure, some suicide cases only really need a moment to talk it out or hug it out, but somehow Collete's depression turned into an "I just needed friends" scenario. All of their issues got flushed down the drain by the power of friendship? That is my point contention.

It trivializes a serious problem. Not cool.

It might help somebody suicidal maybe, who has a hug-it-out problem. Maybe they can watch this and be like, "lemme get some friends up in here and go on a vacay," so that'd be good, but on the other hand, it's really disrespectful to everyone who doesn't have a hug-it-out problem. Eg. to someone who actually has an inoperable brain tumor. The so called "easy" excuse, that Potts went on to make mock of. This happens in real life. People have brain tumors and die from it.

Good acting, but it's all in bad taste if you ask me.




Clever people will recognize and tolerate nothing but cleverness.

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Bit late to the party (only saw the movie last night) but this post perfectly explains the unease I personally felt while watching the film.

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Many people who top themselves do not look depressive.

Its that man again!!

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A friend who's a psychologist told me that people in the farthest depths of despair are less likely to commit suicide (than those either not there yet or coming out of it) because they often don't have the energy to commit the act. Think about it: most suicide plans involve at least a little preparation, which is hard to follow through if you're totally despondent.

And of course, they talked each other "off the ledge" pretty quickly, so probably none were really ready to go.

I wondered whether Jess really would have made that headlong run off the roof if no one had been there to watch her. ;-)

Look at him -- sittin' on that stool like he's doin' it a favor.

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"A Long Way Down" is a comedy. So, it doesn't have to be perfectly realistic.

Secondly, as for what a psychologist told markeminegreen, another possibility is that a person may struggle with the decision of suicide, and once that is done, the suicidal person may have accepted their fate, made their arrangements and look less depressed.

As for being talked out of suicide, that also can happen in real life.
And some who have survived their attempt (as mentioned by JJ) regret the decision to take action (like jumping).

For me this was an enjoyble, touching film.
8/10.

BB ;-)

it is just in my opinion - imo - 🌈

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