Would you have let her in?


I absolutely would have! I know i'd have been signing my own death warrant but there's no way i could let my partner sit outside in a toxic cloud!

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I agree with you. I thought they should have had some stronger incentive for him not to let her in. I know i'd rather have died mayself with her than let her die all alone outside and live with it the rest of my life. Sure the old guy was there but I thought maybe if there had been the kid with him or a woman with her kid stopping him from opening the door before he had time to rationalize...

For every lie I unlearn I learn something new - Ani Difranco

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I would have let her in too. At the beginning of the movie it felt very odd that he didn´t let her in. I was even mad to him. Maybe there would have been a change to do something to help her. I think I´d die if I knew there was something I could have done.

Movie was great. I didn´t expect very much of it though.

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Just posted this same reply on another post.....

If it where me in the house and my fella outside I would, without hesitation, let him in.....I would kill to let him in and doing so die myself but my lifce is not complete without him and therefore I would risk dying with him than to ever live without him.....

NOW.....Him on the other hand would be more rational, I am 95% sure he would NOT let me in, this is not because he is heartless or evil or selfish it is because he is rational and, yes he doesn't wanna die, but if he could save himself and in-turn save me then all is good in the world and if I where to die he would greave but his life would not end......

I do not question his love for me but I know in that situation he would but a lot more rational and in some respects sensible than me!

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Can I change my above comment.....asked him and he said 'How stupid are you....of COURSE I'd let you in, I wouldn't wanna live without you Katy....who would cook and clean for me!' AND THEY SAY ROMANCE IS DEAD!!!!! lol

Seriously though it would appear he would let me in.....I retract last statements......he did however say 'What if there where children involved?'

SO .... 'What if Brad & Lexi had had children and they where inside the house....A. Would you want your partner to let you in and B. Would you let your partner in?

We BOTH agreed in that situation we would not want to be let in nor would we let the other in, for the sake of the children :-)

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I would have let her in only if my children weren't already safe inside with me. I would not be able to watch my spouse die alone and do nothing unless it were in the best interest of my children. This movie really gets one thinking.

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LET HER DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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No, my wife can stay outside.

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In the end we never know how we would react under such an extreme life threatening situation. Sure we would like to think we would do the noble thing but that's easy to say when we are sitting nice and comfortable discussing a theoretical situation. While some would let her in, the uncomfortable truth is that for many the old survival instinct would kick in and self preservation would override any sentimental emotions. This is something we don't really have a lot of control over.

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Rubbish - you've obviously never been in love.

They have just married - they are supposed to be head over heels in love - there are no children or pets to take into consideration. When you love someone - especially at the beginning they are your world. If they die then you might as well be dead anyway - I agree that this is fundamentally what is wrong with the whole film - they should have snuck in a line about her perhaps being unfaithful and that would have made it believable.

The guy looked like an idiot and from the moment he didn't let her in I didn't care anymore about what happened as it made no sense at all.

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Thats what I thought, although if anything I did care what happened because I actually wanted to see the damn fool come unstuck, I liked the ending it sends out a good message, act as stupid as this, this is what happens.

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I guess I don't understand this. How is suicide going to save her. The news said to keep infected individuals outside and help is on the way. She was in no danger. She was already infected. So to die while touching her, or stay alive and wait for help seperated by a thin piece of plastic is a better solution? You all seem to forget that when they dragged Lexi away Brad tried to get out after her but they stopped him. At that point, his wife was actually in imminent danger and he ceased to care about being contaminated.

I'm sure most of the people posting the pseudo romantic suicide are female. But if you think about it, had she not broken the glass, they both would have lived. She killed her husband!

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I agree with emailaddy. Brad was making the sensible, pragmatic decision, and she was being irrational and selfish. At one point she said something like, "You'd rather live without me?" By breaking the window, she basically said, "If I'm going down, I'm taking you AND the handyman with me, bitchessss!" I get that she was under a lot of stress, but if I had a deadly, contagious disease I would stay the hell away from my loved ones. End of story.

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Why not leave her into the second room sealed instead of joining up, so stupid.

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Oh, what a happy happy flower filled world it is in your head!

Actually I have been in love, very much so.

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Should she have killed herself right after they gassed him then?


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i always have a problem with this statement...

i've been posed the question of whether i would speak up if a taxi driver said something extremely racist and offensive to me when i was sitting in his taxi. my roommates assert that there would be no way one would know that they would say something until he/she were posed with the situation.................... i beg to differ because in a situation like that, you SHOULD know if you know yourself.

THAT BEING SAID...
in this situation, as it is one of life and death, i'm not so sure the answers would be so solid because there is an immediate threat at hand, and people are instinctual and irrational when they are in situations like that. survival mode really does count for something for most people because it is the most basic instinct.

so although i don't usually agree with the "you never know what you're going to do until it happens" statement, in this case, i can see your point. just because it deals with surviving vs. not surviving.

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your response is really silly because you state "in the end" i think if it were the end why would anyone want a loved one to die alone or for that matter why live a love one dies there is nothing to live for anymore, I would of let her in if there was help like they said we both would of waited.

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yes, when i heard that this was the central premise i was convinced there would be much more to it, but no.

I'm out for a good time - all the rest is propaganda

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When you say partner, do you mean your homosexual "partner" or a normal wife or husband?

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Great responses guys!

It's great to see that we don't live in a world full of cowards like movies frequently show.

I was impressed with how people facing death in 911 were thinking of others and ready for action. I recently heard the same during the recent bridge collapse in the US. The people on the phone were again fairly calm and thinking of the other people who might be more hurt than they.

I've spent 18 working in mental health sometimes feeling like a sucker for helping people and not making a lot of money. I'm starting, again, to think that I was right about people all along.

Good job!

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Take into consideration the Stanford Prison Experiments, "The Wave", or the experiments where people were told to shock others when they got questions wrong at an increasingly higher voltage (the electricity was off, and the other people were faking, but the REAL test was to see how far the people pushing the buttons would go). Some people, when ordered to do something specifically by an authority figure, over and over, and under stressful situations, will still do things that they normally wouldn't.

I want to believe that I would let her in. Even if I had kids in the house, I would not traumatize them by the alternative. But I honestly have to say that most people would WANT to say that- whether they'd actually react that way is a different story.

To admit one's ignorance is the first step towards wisdom- The Phantom.

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Remember that there's nothing he can do to help you. His letting you in will only mean that you'll both die instead of just you.

Of course everyone will rush to say, "I'd let MY spouse in because I'd rather die than live without them," but what loving wife would allow her husband to make that choice? It's lovely and romantic to imagine such devotion, but in fact letting her in would have been an irrational, futile gesture that would contradict the basic human survival instinct.

Furthermore, if you want to talk about cowardice, the pain of watching a loved one die a few feet away, while you do nothing to help - because you can't - is pretty high up there on the grief scale. It's not an easy choice and isn't portrayed as such in the movie.

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Wow, what was the name of those shock experiments? I would love to learn more about them, they sound crazy!

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I liked the ending it sends out a good message, act as stupid as this, this is what happens.


The wife is the one who got her husband killed. If her dumb ass would never have acted like a total moron and broke the window then they both would have been fine. Bitch got her husband killed, while he ended up saving her life. If he let her in in the beginning, then they both would have died.

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well if she doesnt car enough about MY health that she cant wait until help arrives then i dont see why i need to let her in.

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I would've let her in and give her a damn good ol' rogering to boot.

''KEEP IT FOOLISH!''

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