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Relationship Question (spoilers)


Was there anything going on between Jorgen and Anna? I just got some weird feelings when the two of them were together, especially when she goes to his office. I kept waiting for that can of worms to be open.

Did anyone else feel that way?

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I totally got that feeling. I thought for a split second that he was going to kiss her when she came into the board meeting to confront him about dying. I really did get the sense there was something very odd between them.

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At the moment, I had the same idea, but after that minute passed by, I think the movie was just trying to show how much they connected ... they felt so much love (of course, as a father - daughter) between them despite the fact that they're biologically related.

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Let me guess, none of you have children?

If you do have children i pity them.

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Bravo to you mdj71............if you can't look at your child in that way....with no vicous intentions.....you're missing a very special connection.

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ps........and most importantly....so is your child !

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My point exactly :)

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you pity my child?

wow, just because I look at a scene a certain way you can make a comment like that.

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Hats off to your comment.

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Nope! NOt at all! There are some good fathers out there after all.

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OMG - the reason I came to the site was to see what others thought about their relationship. I had a few minutres of uncertainly and wanted to confirm. AND I HAVE KIDS!

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No, not at all...there are some good fathers out there after all. Just because there are a lot of perverts out there didn't mean Jorgen was like that at all. Based on his character--ensuring his family's future would be secure, his relationship with his own children, i would preclude that notion.

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After rewatching the movie, I noticed that Jacob and Pramod share the same look in the beginning of the film when they say goodbye. It just shows how much they love and care about each other, both Jacob and Pramod, and Jorgen and Anna.


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you pull me through time..

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This is a Danish film. Try looking at it that way. People in other cultures sometimes express emotion in ways that might make Americans feel uncomfortable. How do you feel about two Latin-American men engaging in an 'abrazo'?

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yes yes Freud said all daughters want to get it on with their fathers, but he was also a cokehead! I think you people are looking for something sinister that really isn't there. This movie puts everything all out in the open. I think that's what I liked about this movie... the only hidden agenda was extremely well-intentioned, albeit a little odd... Helene and Jakob didn't even try to rekindle the old flame. It was a very clean movie in that sense.

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Well, the man she considered his father was going to die and she just found out; they love each other.
I guess that is reason enough to have intense emotional moments between the two of them.

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