The bigger tragedy


I thought the film, while poignant at times, was also pretty awful. But I give credit to any movie who makes me go online and write about it.

In this case, the terminally ill boy appears to be the tragedy. I disagree. People get sick and there is not a whole lot anyone can do about it. The model's story, on the other hand, is 100% the fault of society.

Through the cheesy flashbacks, we see a beautiful girl in high school with a handsome boyfriend, and young and in love, they think they will get married and have babies. Instead, because of said beauty, she is able to become a high profile model in NYC.

This is not to say all models and/or celebrities take this road, but so many turn to drugs/alcohol/sex/insert your own vice. Why is that? She was once a real person with real friends, and then was put into a superficial world where her beauty was really the only thing that mattered.

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I think a better movie would have had her dying when she took the pills. American movies like to be optimistic, but real optimism to me is showing real despair so maybe people can change. Instead, Nikki had an awakening (literally) and went to visit the sick kid. I get that her taking him to the beach is good for both of them, but what about what happened next? She is reverted back to a sexual tool when he just wants to kiss her (and presumably other things take place).

I think the tragedy of the attractive female is often overlooked in America. Because pretty women often have better jobs, attractive boyfriends, etc, we tend to think they are happy. Studies have even shown we think people are happy merely because they are attractive. I think having the model kill herself would have been powerful, but not as powerful as having her and the kid go to the beach without the sex. Humanity is a much stronger concept than lust.

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It would seem that there's also a commentary on how people prejudge others based on their appearance, like assuming an adult woman had sex with a teenager just because she's pretty when there is zero indication of this and had she not been attractive it wouldn't have been inferred in the least.

She kissed him out of pity, knowing that was probably the biggest thrill his hormone filled body would ever know before death. Any further inferences are merely a reflection of silly assumptions made by the viewer.

It's also worth noting that not once was she forced to take a job in such a shallow industry.

When you're 17 a cow can seem dangerous and forbidden...am I alone here?

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has the thought ever crossed your mind that nikki's boyfriend, the one that died, was spiritually reincarnated into dylan? this would explain why dylan kept saying things like "i dont know why, but i know ill love you forever" and "i could never hate you." her awakening was her boyfriend's spirit looking out for her and saving her life, and she somehow felt that same protection and love from dylan. and that is why she went to visit him, not just to grant him his last wish but because she actually felt that connection with him.

whaddaya think?

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Hmm..I had never really thought about it that way but I totally get it. I mean, even though he's only this teenager that's fawning all over a model, it's like they wanted it to seem more than that. And obviously she did too, because, if it were me, I wouldn't want to take someone away from their home when I knew they could die at any moment. She wanted to feel something even DEEPER with this kid because she needed it just as much as he did.

And to the first person: Nobody said they had sex, and if this were a real world and they did, he wouldn't have been getting anything out of it but pure enjoyment. And she wouldn't have been used as a 'sexual tool', she wanted to, there was no money involved, just lust and love and whatever else that two people feel at that moment.

To me, this movie wasn't the best I've ever seen but it was still good. It had me laughing so hard in some spots so that when it got to the end, it was like you couldn't cry because you know (even though this is fictional) he got his last wish.




Question: Are you on meds?

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I think this is a great idea.
The old boyfriend bringing her back to her true self, and ability to care about someone else.

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