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I am a 27 year old lady who experienced having a relationship with a minor, he aged 16 the time I met him, I was 26.

I am grateful to share my story because it somehow seemed to be so simple yet paintaking to my life. It can also be funny for others, or may be questionable the big deal of my post. I understand that love stories can sometimes be humiliating in putting on a big issue.

I met this boy in the church, he was a ministering Knight. I had been into the church for 3 years but we do not recognized each other. On my fourth year, the last quarter of the year 2007, I recognized him passed infront of me admiring him physically. It was the same day that he also recognized me sitted alone on a far off row. He got my email and we started communicating, then we met in person and our frinedship began. He was with me following, smiling, cliches, walking me home for 3 months without any word of courtship. I felt confused because it seems clueless and deep to fathom what is inside of him. we meet during rehearsals, I was a member of the band. Evrytime I go to church I was inspired and happy at the same time seeing him. He even sat with me during the weekday masses (we did not know it would only happen twice)and is not ashamed to show to the leaders and members of the church.

We were able to complete the advent 4am masses and we start having time together alone. No sexual experiences happend. I respected him as a boy with all my heart. He cried out what he felt during nearly Christmas time and he began telling me that he loves me.We made our way possible to undergo consent from my church guardians to be in a relationship. But they did not approved. But we loved each other that we continued. He was an attractive guy with good body built, intelligent, quiet and unfriendly. He is one of the students also in the church. His mind set was far off his age.. and he used to cut his arms when he felt bad about his self and his family. I could not forget he wrote on our photo " I thank God for giving me someoen to love as beautiful as you.. hope this love will never end".

It was so sad that one day we have to end evrything.. his family found out of my age and started to think I was involving him into a bad influence. Some who saw us in the church relayed reports to his family, to the point that I was threatened to be sued on court. I was so hurt that his family said some words that I have no choice but swallow deep to my mind and to teach myself to forget....it was painful...he left me behind and i got to help myself stand on fighting or ending the relationship...

at the time being... we were separated... heard nothing from him.. he was moved out by his family from our church. The last words i got " Blood again, thanks..at least I loved ...and Not again.."

Presently.. i had to fix my life.. I am now engaged and soon to be married to a 44 year old American who was about on a death row of his life.... and I love him and will love him forever for loving me and all my pains. -- I believed it was God who willed things to happen.