Aaron: Gay or not gay?
The guy that everybody thought was gay, was he gay or not? And if he was, then why the hell didn't he know it? And don't tell me repression, this was set in California, from what I've seen in the movies nobody's repressed in California.
And if he was gay and didn't know it, is that why his wife's so unhappy? Or is she just depressed? (She would certainly meet DSM-IV criteria). Of course if your husband's gay, and either does or doesn't know it, that would certainly cause depression.
Anybody out there with very good gaydar that's seen this movie?
Wait, I believe he had an British accent. Everything British (except Austin Powers and James Bond) seems gay to me. Maybe everyone else thought in the movie thought so as well. That could explain it.