Shar - Celebrity Fit Club (2005) Discussion

[–] Butterfly041532 14 years ago

Yeah but I still can't help but feel sorry for her. I don't have kids with anyone and I would hope I would never get involved with (nor produce children with) a douche bag that calls himself "K-Fed" or that rap name he came up with but I can put myself in her shoes. It's hard enough breaking up with someone because things didn't work out but to be dumped publicly, knowing this guy cheated on you while you're pregnant with his 50th child has got to be rough and do some damage. I couldn't do it...no way.

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[–] GrapeJews 14 years ago

She needs to get looking hot and move on. It's the best revenge. I feel for her though I do.

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[–] Sulalee 14 years ago

In all fairness, it was the media that gave him the name K-Fed. He tried to stop people from calling him that.

I threw that sh-- before I walked into the room!

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[–] badjuju_00 14 years ago

He's still living the good life - making millions per year for being an ex-husband.

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[–] bethandjack1 14 years ago

It is pretty crappy that morons ask her about that break up though... its like putting salt in a wound. I missed the beggining did she know he was going to be on the show also- cuz I can understand her wanting to better herself and grow without him constantly being on her coat tails.

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[–] badjuju_00 14 years ago

I agree. She said she did not know he was going to be on the show. What struck me as odd was she said she had not seen him in a very long time. This means he does not maintain a relationship with the children he has with her. This piece of crap makes over $60,000 a month (he had asked for a lot more and who knows what else) just by being the ex-husband of Britney Spears and can not be bothered to visit his children.

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[–] jennifer_libby 14 years ago

I understand what you guys are saying, and I'll give her the benefit of the doubt since that was the first few days and she didn't know he was going to be there. Honestly, though, I hope they don't focus on that anymore because it will keep getting more and more annoying.

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[–] bowlingbabe5574 14 years ago

I really think she's still in love with him, that's why she brings him up. It's got to be hard to know that you use to be considered an actress that people may have known, to being "the chick" that had babies by one of the most celebrated Pop Stars, ex-husband. Lets be honest for a minute, we knew who Shar Jackson was from Moesha and Good Burger before we knew K-Fed. It's truly got to be hard to be upstage your ex through tabloids and paparazzi. I'm sure no one was following her around more than when Britney and Kevin got together. Just a thought.....

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[–] Guamley 14 years ago

"Because his white kids equal dollar signs. If he left me while pregnant, the kids would go straight to foster care. AND I wouldn't notify the "daddy."

What the hell does that mean?

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[–] SmokyBrownEyes 14 years ago

"If he left me while pregnant, the kids would go straight to foster care. AND I wouldn't notify the "daddy.""

You would send your babies away to foster care just to spite their daddy? That's still your flesh and blood and very cold-hearted. Thank goodness Shar didn't go that route.

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[–] dlg13 14 years ago

Yeah that's the attitude of a person who should never have kids if they are going to use them to get back at someone.

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[–] WhiteHeron 14 years ago

Something is wrong with you if you would send your kids to foster care to punish their daddy.

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[–] missnyc09 14 years ago

Well, it was just the first episode. It's probably only been 2 days if filming.
She was also asked questions about how his presence might affect her.

It's too early to judge. If she's goes 2-3 more episodes talking about it, then we can say she needs to "get over it".
But it's only been one episode. I think the 1st eppy, she wanted to set it straight that theres more to her than just being "K-Feds ex".

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[–] dlg13 14 years ago

The fact the VH1 even put them on together is disturbing to me.

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[–] missnyc09 14 years ago

Yeah well, I guess they wanted to draw more viewers.
I'm mostly watching for Tanisha, but I was also interested in how both of them would interact on the show.

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[–] carriepookie 14 years ago

It's disturbing to me if they didn't tell her Kevin was going to be on! That's just crappy. At least on Celebrity Rehab, they let Heidi Fleiss know that they were having Tom Sizemore on.

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[–] jennifer_libby 14 years ago

This is true. I am sure they were asking her about it.

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[–] jettgurrl 14 years ago

I feel bad for her because he treats her like she is such a non-entity! When she fell, he couldn't even show concern for her as the mother of his children. Then to admit that he'll say he is going to see their children and then not show up til way later all the while we see him out with the children he has custody of has to sting!
"That tiger went tiger!"

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[–] missnyc09 14 years ago

Well Britten once again, asked her about Kevin. She needs to quit...
Shar got out what she wanted to, and now lets move on and help her lose weight.

This is the second time she was asked about it & of course the camera did that dramatic close-up again.
They better not bring it up again. I can see this getting annoying.

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[–] khalilluva23 14 years ago

Kevin is a loser. Everytime You hear Shar talking, Kevin is looking down or looking away like a punk. I hope Shar succeeds and never talks to kevin again.

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[–] jennifer_libby 14 years ago

In Kevin's defense (even though he doesn't deserve much of one) it has to be uncomfortable for him to be there with her, too. Couple that with the fact that she seems obsessed with him. This week it wasn't as much her fault since they asked her about it, but it seems like every time he speaks she has some weird look on her face. If they don't stop with this it will get seriously annoying.

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[–] keisha_g-1 14 years ago

Jennifer- Have you ever had a break-up?? put yourself in her shoes... your with someone that you really cared for loved and had kids by, and while YOU was pregnant he leaves you for someone else. That break up is hard within itself because your pregnant by this guy and you haven't even given birth and he leaves. that hurt on top of it being all in the news..everywhere you go, you see pictures of them hugged up, kissing, smiling... how would YOU feel... yes it's been some years but that type of hurt is still painful and sometimes doesn't go away for many of years./..... especially after the two had a "reality show" together about there love... there love was all over the papers how can one heal as quickly as "normal" break ups where you know he is with someone else but it's not flaunted.. you don't see the interactions like you would with how she had to deal with it... you seriously need to see it at the angle it was.. it wasn't a normal break up... so excuse her for still feeling that pain... if it's annoying to you.. please go through ANY life ups and downs that YOU had to deal with and have it known to the world to disect, and judge and talk about.... and see what your thoughts would be then.

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[–] fcherrelle 14 years ago

WHATEVER! She needs to move the *beep* on! It's pathetic she is crying over his ass! If you want to be an emotional wreck because of a break up then YOU are holding your self back by rehearsing your past and allowing it to torment you! She needs to move on because he did! Who the hell would want her as long as she wants to cary around all that baggage??????

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[–] keisha_g-1 14 years ago

Whatever!! you say that shyt now... people love to talk about other folks and what's wrong with them... please lets inspect on fcherrelle's life...Whatever! I ain't buying none of the shyt you saying cause your not in these folks shoes

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[–] jennifer_libby 14 years ago

If I was that hung up on someone or had strong feelings about the situation, I would have gotten off of the bus on the first day. I have too much pride to let myself look like a love sick puppy on television.

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[–] MovieBuffNow 14 years ago

I don't think Shar is still in love with Kevin or still torn up about about the way he dumped her. I think her major problem is the fact that her career was ruined after the Brit/Kev fiasco. As she stated she has been acting since she was 2 and was very popular on many AA sitcoms but after every one discovered she was Kev's "baby mama" it pretty much overshadowed her career and it was all anyone wanted to talk about. That's got to be tough. I was a fan of Moesha for years and had no idea she even had 2 kids before she got with Kevin! She kept her private life just that...private, unlike most young stars today so I'm sure it was hard for her as she stated to go from being a sitcom star to a tabloid queen. And the fact that he left her for Britney Spears of all ppl is equally upsetting.

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[–] Raven34 14 years ago

I don't know what show you're watching. But, Shar doesn't have an obsession with her ex, Kevin. She gets asked about him. So she responds.Maybe you should pay more attention to the show.

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[–] keisha_g-1 14 years ago

Thank you Raven!!! Thank you..

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[–] Raven34 14 years ago

No problem.

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[–] Knoxvicious 14 years ago

Aren't you sure Kevin gets asked about it also??

It's just annoying that, like the celebrities even said, she's talks about his problems without EVER confronting him. She bitches and moans behind his back, so (as a man) he's obviously going to be clueless at what to do.

God, I'm really hating her more and more...

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[–] MermaidsRreal 14 years ago

Shar is very pretty, she looks young for her age. Once that weight comes off, she is going to be a knock-out! Her oldest 2 children are almost grown, as she had them fairly young so she has lot's of time to find a new man--a good man! She needs to move on before life passes her by taking her looks along with it. That's what's so sad about a lot of us women. We spend so much time being sad over a man, while they are going on about their merry lives.

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