Based on what the movie depicted -- and I'm not going to address whether the movie was realistic -- "movie Warhol" (mW) cared a great deal for "movie Edie" (mE), but he was so emotionally stunted that he was unable to feel grief at the loss of their friendship and later her death.
The early scenes of them spending time together obsessively, being wrapped up in each other, show that there was a deep connection -- almost a non-romantic, all-encompassing infatuation -- between mW and mE. Just because he couldn't grieve her loss doesn't mean he didn't feel connected to her. With the exception of psychopaths, everyone -- even emotionally damaged people -- crave connection; unfortunately, they aren't any good at the give-and-take required by healthy/mature relationships, and they aren't able to cope with any of the taxing emotions (disappointment, frustration, anger, grief).
So, yes, mW felt a great deal for mE; couldn't handle feeling rejected as her focus shifted slightly away from him and onto Billy; dropped her; and compartmentalized such that he seemed to discard any feelings he'd had for her. By the time she died, he thought of her as a marginal person in his life (rather than re-feel grief at the dissolution of their friendship, feel regret or even self-recrimination at how badly he'd treated her).
Again, the above is about mW and mE, based on what the filmmaker and actors showed us. That said, what I know about AW suggests that he was an emotional cripple who couldn't let people in, couldn't cope with the emotional demands of partner relationships and true friendship.
"All you need to start an asylum is an empty room and the right kind of people."
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