Wow, what a jaded way of looking at it.
He "insisted" on paying off her loans because "he" didn't want anyone he loved to be saddled with worrying about paying off loans and interest. Listen to the dialog again. She said nothing. He is the one who kept making these monetary decision because he was a control freak.
He didn't mind if she got fired all the time, in fact he sat in her cubicle until she did, so they could go off and celebrate her freedom, plus have the perk of not having her job interfere with him having her all to himself.
Of course he had to help her with her upstart business, as most married couples, and families do. It doesn't matter who paid for it. What is the alternative? Not helping her and letting her fail (because in reality nobody who starts a business does it all on their own) and lose his investment? If all he had to do was get her some ice, he should be grateful.
There arrangement, as per his insistence, was that she didn't pay for anything. That's what he did. Remember "My greatest joy in life is making the people I love happy" (buying things).
She kicked his insane, suicidal brother out because he was being crude and disrespectful to her in her own home, as she should have. Plus he was getting on her nerves, as he would've gotten on mine. Remember, it was "their home", they were married! It was her home too, as per the family law codes of most states. If someone is being lewd in front of me in my own home they've got to go, and I don't care if it's Jesus. I would have called the police to escort them out if they wouldn't go. She's under no obligation to be shat on by his brother. They should have committed him, then maybe he wouldn't have killed himself.
She only wanted a dog, because he wouldn't agree to a baby. She was settling because he was unable to commit to the next big step. President Obama's daughters are allergic. They should have just looked for a hypoallergenic dog, like the Obama's did. That was just an excuse anyway, he didn't want her attention to be devoted to anything but him. That kind of relationship is very lonely, a dog is the least you should have.
While his mother's prejudice toward Jews was wrong, I don't think it's uncommon. A lot of older Christians, as well as Jews feel the way she did about intermarriage, so the film was accurate and truthful in that respect. At least she was honest about it, instead of lying like most people do.
You talk about the mother's hatred of Jews, while spouting the same kind hatred against a Gentile woman. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?
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