Really special


I'll tell you why I think so: This film starts off very broad, almost like a cartoon. The characters played by Danny DeVito and Kathy Bates, have funny names and look funny and there are a lot of jokes and slapstick hi jinks. At this point, you could say the film was just your typical Hollywood low comedy, no better then an Adam Sandler or Rob Schneider comedy. But as you keep watching, something happens: the characters start to seem very endearing and you start seeing them as more human. About 2/3 of the way through the film becomes, not exactly serious as there are still funny bits but it has an unexpected emotional undertow that actually brought tears to my eyes both times I watched it. I don't want to give away the ending but it makes the film something more then a broad comedy for me. Maybe it's the potency of the theme - acceptance and sacrificing one's own happiness for another, but the ending really works and the ultimate resolution leaves me with a big smile on my face. DeVito has a line where he says that he and Bates are smarter then they look..I would say that about this film - it's better then it seems on a casual viewing.

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I don't know why this film (in its limited showing)! got bad reviews/press - I mean, it's not "Citizen Kane" - but I and my brother are both adopted (this was in the 60'S, and we were always told the truth, and we were able to get access to medical records and the like (mine were horrible; his were cool). We were adopted by a sort of dysfunctional family who turned out great, but I have found through therapy, self-help, support groups, etc. that ANY mention about adoption is a hot potato for some people - maybe the critics? Anyway, it brought tears to my eyes as well.

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I'm glad I'm not the only one!

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I agree! The ending is amazing but I'm biased. Personally, I think the movie begins out as just plain ol' fun. You don't have to think overly hard, just sit back and laugh and then it gets deeper as the movie goes on and that is how movies should be!!!

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I like the ending very much myself. Thanks Brandon!


Action Is everything!

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Yeah I love this movie. (and I'm not even adopted.)

It's a very sweet and feel good movie. I love the very end where it shows both the real parents and the snobby adoptive parents getting along.

Why, child... I believe you broke my legs. - The Skeleton Key

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I'm a Neve Campbell fan and I hate to say it, but despite the few laughs, for me it was meh. Nothing I'd write home about, but nothing really wrong with it either. Kind of see it and forget it. Neve was the straight man in a supporting role, but she has done better in other comedies, IMHO.

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I love this movie. It always gives me a pick me up when I'm down.

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I think that's the perfect thing to say about this film. It's smarter than it looks.
On first viewing, i turned the movie off. Im a huge Neve Campbell fan, but i had to. I thought it was shocking!!!!
But, naturally, as time went by and i was at the Video shop, i saw it sitting there, so i picked it up again, not knowing why i wanted to watch it. But i did anyway. And suprisingly, i liked it much better. No, it's not the funniest movie, but it does have its moments. Like the charades scene. I love that scene. And when the Menure's have their first dinner with Richard and Ellen. The subtle moments are more funny than the scenes that are trying to be funny.

It's a good film, and gets better with more viewings. But persoanlly, Danny DeVito and Neve Campbell had a better comedy with 'Drowning Mona'. I also noticed that Neve has the name Ellen in both Drowning Mona and Relative Strangers

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Yeah it's good fun. Devito and Bates are hilarious. It's no classic though, and the scenes without Devito and Bates are mediocre but it has some decent laughs and a warm hearted ending.

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