You get used to the ambient levels just fine, that's no problem, and yes you can hear leaves falling in the city---snow too. It's the aberrations that are annoying, and that depends on the city. I live about a mile from "main st." so I'm not in the thick of it, but it's pretty quiet where I live. Not two blocks away is a thriving cultural district with fairly heavy traffic. Never hear it until I'm right up on it. Part of it is city planning. We have lots of trees, so many of them you can hardly see more than a block. Our city looks like small town America in every direction you go, mile after mile of little old houses and ancient trees. Where I live, you see twenty bikes for every car, and that's no exaggeration.
So it's not all bad, you just have to find the right spot to live if you have sensitivities. I do, and I drove myself mad living in all the wrong places. The country isn't the answer for me. I want to be able to get up in the morning and have ten different tea and coffeehouses to choose from (not because I need them all, though the variety is nice, but because that means there will be one or two that are simply outstanding) and several ten thousand different people in my immediate neighbourhood to buffer anonymity and keep things fresh. Whenever I go out to the country where my folks live, I feel sorry for them with the lack of culture and quality. The local diner serves greasy uninspired dishes, the idea of a coffeehouse is utterly foreign (that it could be for more than just coffee; a pub for sober people), and stale old friendships. I'm not saying that's all there is to it, but for someone like me that treasures good cuisine, lots of new people to meet with no obligation to stay met, and you know---just in general living in an area that has attracted the best of a few hundred or more square miles in order to pitch in and make a living doing what they love---that's just not for me. For some people that kind of stuff isn't important and those friendships aren't actually stale.
And yeah, they can keep Manhattan, too, I've got no interest in city on that scale, either, even if it does offer the things I love at a level even higher than what I get.
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