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Hard Movie for me to watch

posted 12 years ago by dealey52
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I was in this situation only my ex-wife after 8 1/2 years and 3 children just up out of the blue said she wanted a divorce. It was like she came back another person after one of her Army Reserve schools. We had a good sex life (she admitted) and she had several boyfriends before me. After several months of hell the divorce was final. Not long after she became very depressed and admitted to me it was all because of another women she suddenly met and immediately fell in love with. As soon as the divorce was final this other women broke up with her, she just wanted what she thought she couldn't have ("lesbian vampire"). So my friends things aren't always the way they are in the movies.

[–] lorainewong2003 11 years ago

Sorry to hear bro...

When it comes to this movie, before I was in a relationship, it was a very lovely film. I loved it to bits. Almost memoriesd the whole thing I had to admit. Thing is, after you're in a relationship and you have experienced infidelity from your partner... it's just difficult. It reminds you of Heck's pain, which I think he handled perfectly.

So, dealey, hang in there. You'll find someone else. Things can only get better at this point.

[–] wvsarafan 9 years ago

Why would you possibly think anyone here would care about this?

[–] dealey52 9 years ago

And why did you feel you needed to add your dribble A.H. Back under the bridge with you troll.

[–] dealey52 9 years ago

wvsarafan, and why did you feel you needed to add your dribble A.H. Back under the bridge with you troll.

[–] cyguration (3834) 3 years ago

I've been looking for a post like this.

It seems like when these movies crop up NO ONE criticizes these films for promoting the message that women need to "explore" their sexual options even while they're in a committed relationship in order to find their own inner "happiness" or follow the pursuit of said "happiness", which is usually just a few moments of steamy passion with someone giving them undue amounts of attention who isn't their significant other.

That being said, your story... man, it moves me.

I know how it feels to have that looming feeling of paranoia and uncertainty swimming throughout every fiber of your being as the person you love seems to be slipping away from you but you don't know why and can't do anything to stop it.

I wish I could say that things get better, or that there's some sort of happy solution, but being that this is a necropost I would like hope (against my better judgment) that you found someone more committed, loving, and faithful and can hopefully put behind you the emotionally detrimental experience you had because your ex-wife was (falsely) lured into the propaganda trap of believing the hype about running away with a lesbian to experience some kind of ethereal, unfulfilled bliss.