Wow


I understand now! Tony forgot all the things that caused all his pain (at least he tried), yet he could not forget Hisako and her empathetic feelings about his wife. I think that's the reason he calls her in the final scene, perhaps Tony is thinking about a new beginning with Hisako. I came to understand that, Tony trying to replace his wife and somehow recreate her presence was him just fooling himself and I thought it was emotionally unhealthy. That seems to be the idea being relayed here, in a very ambiguous sort of way, not to be physically alone but to be emotionally lonely is unhealthy. This idea has been explored in films/books before.

The scene where Tony falls asleep on the floor of his wife's old closet, was transposed with a scene of his father sleeping on the prison floor from the beginning of the film, maybe that's some kind of metaphor of how loneliness can be a prison, how we create our own prisons. The director just kinda leaves the story hanging, not in the sense that it felt incomplete, it just does not deliver the ever-so coveted "happy ending", but it does leave a glimmer of hope in the fact that Tony has taken iniative and attempted to call Hisako, That kind of storytelling I find brilliant and it leaves one to contemplate how we make our own choices and suggests the idea that it is in our control to obtain happiness.

The cinematography was interesting also, it gave us a very restricted view of the characters world nevertheless we see just what we need to see. The slow panning shots got boring after awhile but it does not take away anything from this beautiful film.

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I find it hard to believe he was trying to ask her out on a date or something.
It doesn't have to go that far. He was obviously trying to contact her, but the kind of relationship he was seeking doesn't have to be sexual.

Hisako was the only person in the world left that Tony had some kind of connection too. She knew something about him. She knew about his wife, she had seen his house. He had given her clothes. It is a very thin bond but still a connection, she had seen a glimpse of his life.

So my guess is he just wanted to connect somehow to other people, to the world.

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Ummm....... I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean. I am not suggesting that Tony wanted sex from Hisako.

"So my guess is he just wanted to connect somehow to other people, to the world.
".....sure but you can't say that Tony did not look at Hisako as a romantic possibility. I just feel that he saw something in her, something more than just a connection.

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yes you're right, of course it's possibly. but while watching it that's not how I percieved it.

we'll never know anyway since that part isn't even in the novel.

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