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Was kneeling on grits really a popular morning after contraceptive...

posted 13 years ago by max_demian
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...in the American South in the 1960s?

Lily's father made her do it for a whole hour after catching her rebuttoning her blouse in the peach grove and talking about her getting pregnant.

[–] more_to_life 13 years ago

I thought it was a punishment, not contraceptive...

[–] Awesome_Winged_Turtle 13 years ago

In the book, it was just his way of punishing her for misbehaving- noting to do with contraceptives.

[–] Squeegie_Beckenheim 12 years ago

Strange how you came to that conclusion max.

From Rosaleen asking Lily how long he made her kneel this time, it was obvious that this was a consistent form of punishment.

[–] max_demian 12 years ago

Triple woosh.

[–] Squeegie_Beckenheim 12 years ago

We noticed how you misinterpret simple information. Wasn't going to take any chances ;) haha

[–] mrsmarkdave 12 years ago

and he threatened to do it in the beginning of the movie if she woke him up again.

[–] carsal7 11 years ago

Uncooked rice is what was used here in the North. If there was talking or goofing around in church, we got 45 minutes (the length of time our services were). Only happened once to me and that was because I accidentally dropped the money dish when it was being passed. I think I was about 6 or 7 at the time; I'll never forget watching the kitchen wall clock the whole time (I was supposed to be praying, but of course, ....).

[–] pikalive 8 years ago

and what would happen if you just said, the hell with this, and stood up and walked away?