You're right, there is something the mother (actually Duris' sister) is saying on the tape, but also it's the song by Dutronc, and Audiard says in an interview he just put that line from Dutronc down because he was listening a lot to Dutronc and he needed to put down something to refer to the film by. I found this on the Nouvelle Observateur site http://artsetspectacles.nouvelobs.com/cinema/cinema2105_086.html:
une des raisons pour lesquelles (en hommage à la chanson de Dutronc) le cœur du héros s’arrête de battre, c’est que son père (Niels Arestrup) sombre, et que le jeune homme va devenir grand en le prenant en main. «J’ai voulu, explique l’auteur-réalisateur, parler de ce moment-clé de toutes les vies humaines où l’enfant, mûrissant, devient brusquement le père de son père. On pense à Dumas fils: "Mon père, cet enfant que j’ai eu quand j’étais petit."»
This explains the concept: not killing the father, but taking on the role of the father of your father, which we see Tom doing with Niels Arestrup's character in the film when he has to protect him and nurse him. As I understand this passage roughly it means: "one reason why (in homage to the Dutronc song) the hero's heart stops beating is his father (Niels Arestrup), and that the young man is going to grow up by taking him by the hand. 'I wanted to talk about this key moment in every human life when the child, maturing, all of a sudden becomes the father of his father...'" Remember this situation is what the character, Tom's pal, is talking about in the opening scene, when he's telling Tom about how in his father's last days he had to take care of him just like a little baby and it made him sad as hell but he loved it too.
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