something that bugs me about Bree in Season 8

All the slut-shaming her when she's being obnoxious. 1: Just don't be like that, it's gross. 2: It was illogical. Granted, I've never been in the situation, but if I found out my spouse was cheating on me, I think I'd be more angry with them than the person they slept with who didn't know they were married and wasn't encouraging a repeat. 3: She was clearly going to the bar, they all should've been more worried about that as a red flag.