Overrated, over the top and too many flaws.
I had heard great things about this film, but was disappointed in the end. I am Dutch, and therefore I think I can say that the acting and writing is way over the top. I think this may not be visible to non-Dutch speakers, cause a lot gets lost in translation.
This is especially noticable in the first half of the movie some: too much use of foul lanuguage. The girl with eye-patch is constantly cussed at, and nobody wonders about this. She herself did a terrible acting job by the way.
There were some other things that didn't sit right with me: Camiel hasn't seen Simon for 14 years, but suddenly they are best friends again. He is the guy who guys to the doctor and Thailand with Simon, instead of those other friends who were with him all the time - even before Camiel was present. Just not very believable. Also, the adoption of the 2 kids was decided overnight. At one point, we see the gay couple discuss it, not making a decision, and the next scene it is all said and done! Bram initially disapproves of the friendship with Simon, 10 minutes later he is adopting his kids! Hmmm, I don 't think so.
And who the hell casted Nadja Hüpscher as the daughter?! She is supposed to be 17/18 years old, while she was actually 32 at the time!! And it is visible too. Incredible, I can not imagine that this casting director is ever hired again.
The film has a few good things in it, such as the acting of the 2 main characters. But the writing and and some plot turns are just sub-par. Let´s face it: the high rating it gets on IMDB is due to the fact that is touches a controversial subject. And because the main character deals so good with his illness, viewers are touched and mistake their emotions for watching a great movie. I call this the ´Shawshank Redemption´ factor (listed 2 on the IMDB 250, totally undeserved). If you want to see a good movie about euthanisia, watch ´Mar adentro´. Much more realistic and subtle.