the idea of skipping Christmas
It was handled horribly on both ends really. Maybe it would've gone better for the Kranks if he hadn't sounded hostile and almost malicious each time he explained it. And everyone else should've been more accepting of it not being their business. They were so nosy and pushy, like the card guy who actually followed Nora into a restaurant to harass her. Really, what if people weren't celebrating because they were Jewish, would the rest have been so militaristic then?