Hmmm... so now sleeping with a married man makes you evil?
It doesn't make you a saint either. You can't deny that sleeping with a married man, while socializing with his wife, and his family, is objectionable, can you?
(what the husband did was worse mind you)
I definitely agree there and that's the reason I didn't like the ending. With the thread of buddhism throughout the movie, the news about his family coming in the middle of his pathetic monologue, trying to justify his actions, kinda feels like karma came back and bit him in the ass... at the expense of the lives of his kids.
what Elaine did was in well another level of manipulation and it was downright cruel. ANOTHER level
I don't believe she meant to be cruel, or manipulative. I think the fact she's a writer is relevant because at the beginning, she is trying to connect with him.
Once she learns about Jeffrey, she feels jealous and hurt and maybe she wants some indirect revenge, but as things go further with Robert, she's trying to bring him closure. She's not being cruel or manipulative. She's not telling him he should kill himself, it would have been easy, her reaction is dismay that he would even ask, and she tells him to live his life to the fullest.
She could have told him to stop seeing Jeffrey but she didn't.
My point is she might have started with less than good intentions (I'm not even sure of that) but she ends up trying to help him through his pain. She only tells him it was her at the end because she's hurt.
BTW, to the person calling the movie homophobic because the gay character isn't good. There's no kind of rule whatsoever that a movie has to present good gay characters or it's homophobic. Just like a movie with a negatice female character isn't sexist, nor a negative portrayal of a black person make a movie racist.
It's completely absurd to demand a political agenda from cinema.
True. It would be really nice though, to have gay characters who are not there to be bashed, to be promiscuous, sleep with married men, get HIV etc. Just like straight characters are not only there to get married, have kids, blah blah.
I'm not even getting into the portrayal of bisexuality because it's not about to change either.
For every lie I unlearn I learn something new - Ani Difranco
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