wheres that guy?

Where was benjamin?!?!?! Do they ever show his face??? i missed the beginning of the movie so... i think hes probably some old guy becuase if Isabel's mom slept with him and all those male models.... is Ben suppose to be hot/sexy?

>>> F.Y.I (when those guys were on the Down Low about being gay..And Alec gave up a CAREER opportunity just to meet him on a roof top, in the cold weather, was really stupid. One night not seeing him couldn't have killed him, i mean there was next week and so on)