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Help me out (spoiler)


So she realized that her mother set up the meeting each other?




Im the Alpha and the Omoxus. The Omoxus and the Omega

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no, mina never knew anything about her mother paying the guy to hang out with her since he only returns the money after she already went into a coma.

from the diary entry at the end though she acknowledges that her mom has worked very hard to make her happy and she is thankful for it.

i think we all want a mother like that.

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Incorrect. Of COURSE Mina knows the mother designed the whole thing. That's why she goes into the mother's bedroom while she is sleeping and thanks her mother for the wonderful gift she has given her of knowing Love before she dies. This is why the mother cries into the mirror so hard later. She knows Mina knew.

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again no.

mina thanks her mom for everything she has done to make her life a happy one which only includes things mina knew about.

-having mina brought home from the hospital to live her life at home
-goto school
-having mina treat the mom as a best friend and playing with her
-consistently encouraging mina to hang out and get closer to the guy etc.

there's absolutely nothing that indicates mina ever knew about the guy being purposefully bribed into spending time with her.

for all she knows, the guy moved in downstairs and randomly developed an interest in her which is easy considering that he already "harrassed" her a bit before the mom even met the guy.

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Sorry, but you're obtuse. Mina figures it ALL out ahead of time, not only part of it. She is so full of love that she even thanks her mother for arranging the whole boy plot out; the film has no real closure unless Mina knew EVERYTHING. The mother even kept the fact that she was dying away from Mina, and Mina figured that out too. She was one smart cookie.

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"She was one smart cookie."

this is the only sensible thing you've written so far... everything else is pretty much based on absolutely no evidence from the movie in any sort of way and in place is your own empty and weak reasoning like the protagonist being "full of love".

feels like i'm responding to a 11 year old girl.

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Then since she was one smart cookie SHE KNEW. And that was why so much later her mother was weeping into the mirror. Mina had already been dead awhile and now we see momma crying yet again - there was a REASON for that. She realized that Mina KNEW her plot of getting the boy to rent there so they would fall in love. The boy originally did it for money but fell in love with Mina anyway and afterward gave the money back to momma.

The film would lack that final punch of poignancy if Mina went to her death not knowing how much her mother loved her.

Watch it again. With your heart, not just your eyes.

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ok, i change my initial assessment from 11 year old to a 9 year old girl.

it's impressive you know how to spell that well as a 9 year old not to mention knowing how to use the word "poignancy".

that must be some school your parents enrolled you into.

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Thanks guys!


Im the Alpha and the Omoxus. The Omoxus and the Omega

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I don't think she realized that. I think that she figures out that she is going to die in that night when her mother drank and the girl finds a notebook (maybe her mother's journal) in that box under the bed. But there is nothing to indicate us that she knew about the set up.

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