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Excellent film, both romance and drama


I would like to heartily thank the director, Ken Loach, for providing a balanced, open-minded, and refreshing film on a relationship between a Muslim man and a European woman. These relationships are much more prevalent (and healthy) than the mainstream media would lead viewers to believe. Unlike other films on this subject that routinely pair a Muslim woman (often presented as neglected by her parents or abused by her conservative Muslim husband) and European man (the savior), A Fond Kiss poignantly highlights the cultural conflicts that arise for second generation open-minded Muslim men and the lingering double standards that Western women are still confronted with. The movie does not demonize any of the antagonists in the movie, including Casim's family or Roisin's priest. More importantly, Casim is not stereotyped as intolerant, lustful of European women, or emotionally devoid. Similarly, Roison is not presented as promiscuous, weak-willed, or confused. For an unconventional (in many ways) look at integration, relationships, and the transcendental nature of love, A Fond Kiss is recommended for those who enjoy romance, drama, or simply exceptional films.

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This is a great and excellent film.

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I agree.

An excellent film indeed.

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I have seen all the movies made on similar plots, but NONE of them comes even close . This was beautifully done and wasnt even a tad bit unrealistic or exaggerated . I would definitely recommend watching this one .

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I agree with all of you. Last night I saw it for the second time, after about 1,5 years. Compelling and realistic, without any tiresome cliches. It's effectively humorous at times. It's romantic without getting overly and unrealistically cute, and it's confronting and daring. A great script on relevant topics to debate afterwards.

But also, Ae Fond Kiss is simply highly enjoyable in a timeless sense.

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