Have to ask: why invite comparisons?
Why remake a classic that did everything right, knowing that everyone who sees it is going to be comparing it scene for scene, line for line with the original?
Even though it must be 30 years since I saw Dreyfus & Mason's version, I kept seeing them in this movie. And they didn't measure up! OK so maybe my memory of the original is itself a bit romanticised, but isn't that the point? Remake an old favourite that people remember fondly and they can't help comparing the two versions.
For goodness' sake, there's even a mini-lesson embedded in the screenplay: a director who can't see his own production for the steaming pile of horse manure that it is. Well, this movie isn't *that* bad, it's ok as an amusing Sunday evening diversion (if there's nothing else on) but it doesn't draw you in and make you feel *with* the characters. Not me it didn't, anyway.
In another thread on this board, someone points out that Hallie Eisenberg ("The Kid") is the most appealing thing about this movie and I have to agree. (Eliot's character says it in the script, too!). Jeff Daniels is not bad, but doesn't convince. Patricia Heaton, well - the nicest thing I can say about her is that she does nothing for the movie. She may not quite be a shrew, but she certainly doesn't carry off her lines with any appeal at all - Marsha Mason had exactly the same lines but I don't remember thinking well who cares if she does end up evicted on a rainy NY sidewalk, and the love that develops between Dreyfus' & her characters is a *lot* more believable than when you see it happen between Daniels & Heaton. When JD (rather suddenly) "attacks" Ms Heaton in the bathroom and starts smothering her with kisses, I thought Huh? Doesn't the romance develop in this story? No chemistry. No believability. No... charisma (to use another line from the script).
Verdict: faced with a choice between this and, say, "The Fantastic Four: Rise of the Silver Surfer", choose to go to bed. Or watch Discovery Channel. Or Silver Surfer, if you are an insomniac who's already seen that episode of Farm Animals We Have Rescued.