The dance club scene (spoilers possible)

I saw the movie and I was a bit offended because they made it look like she was raped. After hearing about the book I see that she was actually raped. Now what I am trying to figure out is if "rape" means she was just gang-banged...or if they mean that she was held down and and physically forced.

Because from the scene she seemed to be enjoying the entire situation she put herself in. Not only that, but the large dark colored man unzips her dress and she never even noticed...in fact, the only time she even stopped dancing was when she saw her fiance' getting kicked out. Now I personally never seen a woman soo drunk that she didn't notice her clothes being taken off yet still retain the balance and functional ability to dance and smile and laugh. If she were that drunk then she would have been falling and stumbling and slurring all over the place.

And don't get me wrong, no means no. I don't care if she took all her clothes off and spread eagle, that does not give a man the right to force her into anything she doesn't want to do. But I think her intentions were to seduce or entice Kemp while getting a rise out of her fiance. On top of that she probably wanted to make a scene there since she stood out in the crowd. But why she turned her attention to the local is beyond me.

Now to make another point, I think the scene was trashy, distasteful, disrespectful, and purposely manipulated to evoke a gut wrenching feeling. I think they intentionally preyed upon the taboos and stereotypes prevalent in American culture. It played out in an illogical fashion and seemed to be merely to provoke or to get a bit of nervous excitement out of the viewer. All the subliminal messages throughout the film made the scene predictable...I knew it was gonna happen when she first mentioned the Carnival.