Release Date?

It is going to be released in the USA in February 2007:
http://www.rachelshelleyonline.com/RSO/misc/graymatters.html

I recently saw this movie at the Gay and Lesbian Film Festival in
Los Angeles. It was awesome! I can't wait for it to "come out" in the
theaters! It's a great date movie! (for straight or gay couples!)
It was very thought provoking. It was the first film I have seen that truly
portrayed the coming out experience for a woman in a positive, beautiful STYLISH way! I loved Rachel Shelley as the character Julia and I thought Tom
Cavanaugh was a babe! The scene where Gray and Sam (Heather and Tom)
are in the elevator had me crying and cheering at the same time.
I was told in LA that it's getting a major release by the same company
that did Crash. I can't say enough good things about this film, including
the sound track! Anyone know if it's out yet?

Don't know about a release date, but it's going to be at the Hamptons International Film Festival this month (Oct 20th at 6pm in Southampton & Oct 21st at 7:30pm in East Hampton):

http://filmguide.hamptonsfilmfest.org/tixSYS/2006/filmguide/country-detail.php?Day=&Month=&Year=&Range=USAA&Category=SPOTL&FilterVenue=ALL&ViewSwitch=Y&ShowShorts=Y

We saw this Oct. 18 at a free showing in Phoenix, and got the distinct impression that the film is running into trouble, as in: not playing well for test audiences.

They had us fill out a two-page questionnaire, and selected several people to stay for interviews.

The film was very slow and boring, and full of cliches and obvious outcomes. Much of the male lead's dialogue was mumbled so as to be unintelligible.

Our expectation is that it may go straight to video.

The questions they asked suggested that they thought "straight" audiences would feel uncomfortable in certain scenes. I never felt uncomfortable, but I did think about leaving because it was boring. The only recent (2003) commercial (non-festival) film I thought about walking out of was "Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle", which may have been worse than this one, but I had paid a lot to see that one on the first day, and just forced myself to sit through it. With "Gray Matters" I knew they were going to ask our opinions at the end, and felt somewhat obligated to see it through.

In this film, the writer was the director was the producer. In a film that succeeds, the director and writer may bicker back and forth until they come to an idea that works. This time there was evidently no one to say "Wait a minute -- what about this?"