I have no idea what kind of message this movie was trying to send.
This movie was clearly intent on exploring sexual psychology, yet unlike most other psychological films, it ended with me knowing the characters even less than I had at the beginning of the film. I don't know who ends up with who, I don't know the answers to any of the problems the characters had...it was just two hours of unresolved issues, which makes for an utterly unsatisfying movie.
Let's start with the more "normal" couple. Sophia couldn't orgasm with Rob, so she went in search of other outlets to try to achieve the Big O...but in the end, what was it that finally made her orgasm? It was pretty predictable from early on that Sophia was going to get off with the hot chick, but was it actually the hot chick who got her off, or the combination of hot chick and hot guy? Would she have been able to get off with Rob if they were in a threesome, or is Rob just unable to sexually satisfy her? So is Sophia gay, or does she only get off on more "deviant" sex acts than simply one guy and one girl? The reason for Sophia's orgasm is completely unexplained after an entire film of watching her try to figure it out. I usually don't mind films with more open endings, but when I'm made to sit through two hours of trying to solve a problem, I expect at least somewhat more of an answer, not this crap resolution of "a woman spent her whole life unable to achieve an orgasm and then she suddenly got one." I'd also like to know what happens with her and Rob - do they stay married? Do they have an open relationship? Sex hardly seemed to be their only problem in the movie, so I wish the end of the film had explored their relationship more.
Then there's Severin. It seemed like she was making real progress with Sophia when it came to trying to have a normal relationship, but then the vibrator incident occurred and...what happened after that? Did they resume having sessions with each other? Or did they never speak again? Did Severin's progress halt? Did she backslide into only superficial dominatrix relationships? We don't even know if she's still with the john at the end of the movie. Again, for a plot point that was major in the movie, it has virtually no resolution whatsoever.
I was most bothered by Jamie and James's relationship. (And before anyone starts, no, it's not because they're gay.) James was shown to be incredibly unhappy in the relationship - all it took was the scene in the shrink's office to understand that. Jamie kept talking over James and calling him "Jamie" even after he explained that he was going by "James" now, and Jamie seemed more intent on making the shrink like him than in actually working on his relationship with James. Of course, the most obvious sign that James was unhappy was the fact that he planned his own suicide for six months. So why is it that after at least six months of being miserable enough to want to kill himself, having sex with a random stalker suddenly made James okay? How could that possibly be the solution? James admitted to Severin that he never let anyone *beep* him, so why would he allow his first time to be with a complete stranger? Why not Jamie? And how can it be seen as a good thing for their relationship that James was only able to go back to Jamie after cheating on him? It makes absolutely no sense to me. And I don't see how sex with a stranger will make Jamie any more tolerable to James since James seemed to hate how Jamie was always clinging to his "I'm an albino!" thing and the way he always seemed to need to be in control. It was just not portrayed as a good relationship, and I fail to understand why I should be happy at the end when they wind up back together.
If you think you can explain any of the above things to me, please, feel free to try. As it is, I was severely disappointed in this movie. It just seemed completely incapable of really addressing any of the issues it raised. I was left with way more questions than answers, which is really not the way a movie should end. Like I said above, I don't mind open-ended movies, but this film was left WIDE open. It's like it stopped in the middle and I'm waiting for part two to load so I can find out if any of the characters managed to make any actual progress with their problems.
Thoughts? Comments? Anyone agree with me, or did everyone else feel satisfied with that ending?