Boring, banal, bummer
I should qualify this by saying I'm an almost 60 yr old social worker and that we recently put my father-in-law in assisted living, hence our interest in seeing the movie. This is essentially a student film that is a documentary along the lines of Frederick Wiseman with a small, rather trite scripted story woven in. 'Pot smoking slacker benignly screws with an elderly woman in early dementia whose family has abandoned her.' Outside of these two figures, whose characters are marginally developed (the woman is a competent actor, the guy successfully acts out the part of a marginally compassionate jerk, if that is what he is trying to do), everything else is documentary and lacking compassion. You end up knowing a little more about the old woman, but really don't get much on Todd, in spite of the stupid 3rd person commentaries. Lots of elderly people wandering around the nursing home looking lonely, bored, and frankly stupid in a superior, sort of disrespectful way. You keep waiting for something more meaningful to happen, to develop, and you're disappointed. The nursing home, although too hospital-like in design and decor, actually comes across as doing a competent job in program and care. What is missing is some sense of the social humanity that I expected from the reviews I read before seeing the movie. And in decent assisted care facilities, there is an abundance of humor, compassion, pathos, social relationships primarily between residents and, only secondarily, residents and staff.
There is a place for a good MASH or Cuckoo's Nest-like assisted living movie or something, it's fertile ground, and most of us Baby Boomers will be there ourselves before too long. I have to say I don't think I'd be interested in documentary, espose, or cinema verite on this subject. We did not find this particular entertaining. As a student film, it might work if it was pared down to a 15-20 min. short.