For my point of view, there is no affair of him at all.and that's not a guilt but mixture of a whole lot vulnerable emotions that compel him into tears.
During the first few scenes,we get an idea about different natures of this couple.wife is short tempered and bliterating while husband is soft hearted,kind and loving person.she is very mean too him all the time and always found some way to belittle him or dismiss him.during the entire course of movie, we didn't witness not even one loving glimp towards him.
I think that she never loved him or loves anymore.and after the peeping,lusting and having brief romantic affair, it seems pretty clear.and I also thinks she doesn't love lorenzo either.it just a lustful gate-away from her routine frustrated life and gain some excitement in her life.that's the reality.but for her it's the possibility of fulfilled love without any baggages. who doesn't want that.but loves always comes with a baggages and love,respect,commitment,trust is the base of marriage,here there are none exist.as the director's msg clears the air that you can't love any one unless you love yourself.
well,filippo is a sensible man, not a stupid one. and after their verbal fight, he knows what's she thinks of him.during the dinner with his neighbors, it's seems clear that she seriously thinking about leaving him and break the family which is heart and soul for him.and when she confront him in the early morning,the tension is palpable on his face and fear in his eyes. so in fact next night he feels quite a range of emotions mostly relieved,helplessness,agitation,agony, for future and in these state, a slite thought of his kids makes even tough man into tears..
during entire movie, she was very cruel to him and it's painful to watch.she doesn't appreciate what she has and wandering around for what she wants.
Filippo is a nice character in this movie. director has done a very injustice to his character by limiting his role for few scene and left it underdeveloped,it's just become the punching bag for her and pity for us.it has a very real potential to be a central character rather than a supporting cast.
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