My daughter made it to the National Bee in 1998, and did quite well there. What an intense experience it is, even for families! -- if the child really wants to compete. (Some spellers make it to Nationals but have no desire to do anything other than enjoy the week, the parties, the new friendships.)
To see families together, and their dynamics, is incredibly educational, and sometimes very heartwarming. Obviously some parents push, some support, others look on, bemused -- they weren't good spellers themselves, so this kid is a sort of cuckoo in the nest. Some of the spellers are following older siblings to the Bee, so their parents know what to expect.
Some parents are there solo with their spelling child. Other spellers -- especially the homeschoolers and the first-generation Americans, most particularly Indians and Pakistanis -- are accompanied by parents, siblings, grandparents, etc.
Remember that the Bee takes place at the end of May. For homeschooled spellers, no problem. For the rest -- they must return to the last part of school, tests, final exams, sometimes state or county exams. There's pressure beyond spelling, and more than one student has brought textbooks to D.C., to review for the next weeks' challenges.
Among older spellers (8th grade is the last grade to compete from) you find a certain amount of flirtation, as well -- and with all the signing of picture books and exchanges of e-mail addresses, communication among spellers continues long past that Memorial Day week. And recognition -- my daughter's run into her Bee-mates all over ("You look so familiar, weren't you at...?"). She was surprised to find one in her college freshman class, each of them 2000 miles from home, not having known of the other's plans!
For a child who's good at spelling, the National Bee is like running into long-lost siblings she never knew she had -- and whom she wants to out-spell.
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