HONESTY
I understand how scared a person would be at that time being gay or bisexual. The intolerance from most people was common and even amongst family. However, I believe that if love is true it would be so strong that it would make people brave enough to come out in the open.
I'm in love with a guy from Saudi Arabia who I want to marry someday. Although he and I share many common interests and beliefs, we still have challenges with how different our backgrounds are, him being Muslim and me being agnostic. I was terrified to meet his mother when she came to visit about a year ago because I was positive that she would never accept us in a relationship. After all, she must have known we were intimate just by the fact that he was living here in the US where (unlike Saudi Arabia) sexual relationships are legal. However, we were honest with her and to our pleasant surprise, she accepted us and ADORED me.
Life is full of surprises both pleasant and unpleasant. When it comes to relationships that are considered taboo (my relationship being interracial), people should try their best to bring their relationship out in the open (as long as the relationship isn't taboo in a harmful way like incest or pedephelia). If both people in the relationship are open about it, then they will find that they are opening the possibility of being accepted more than they would expect. Honesty is respect.