should nan of chose kitty

I disagree, Nan was her first love, but not necessarily her true love. With Flo she could live her life as herself and not have to hide the fact that they were in love, whereas Kitty was too self involved. In my opinion anyways.

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Its really interesting question. My first time out of 5 times I saw this drama, yes, me too was thinking Nan and Kitty should live together. Nan going in search of Flo and end up relationship with Flo , its all great surprise.
well ,
1. First time Nan and Kitty make love - next morning Kitty says-" It should be secret between you and me"

Even Diana also tells her , "you are the love of my life"

But when Flo's bro comes down when Nan and Flo are in bed, Nan says 'I don't know how to hide' and Flo Says 'Don't hide'

-- Could you see the difference between Flo and others.

2. Nan started loving little Cirill and the Politician Brother, she loved that little nest more than her house or than staying alone with Kitty.

3. I think once you are betrayed, its very hard to patch it up. Even you patch it up , its only a patch, the relationship won't be that strong. May be the time gap may never let Nan to see the same old Kitty again. Its only an exceptional , a successful reunion of a betrayed relationship.

I believe Nan still loved Kitty deeply and would have given almost anything to have had a life with her, to have had things work out differently but there were some facts that were just in the way of this heart’s desire ever coming through.

1. Kitty broke Nan’s heart and hurt her so deeply that Nan would always remember the pain.
2. Kitty was and still is afraid of others knowing about their relationship.
3. Kitty is married.
4. Flo loves Nan and Nan loves Flo.
5. Flo has given Nan the domestic and emotional security she so longs for.
6. Flo is neither ashamed nor afraid of others knowing about her relationship with Nan.
7. Nan did not want to break Flo’s heart because she understood what that pain felt like.

I feel these facts are what tipped the scale in favor of Flo as Nan’s choice in the end. At the same time if this was a biography instead of fiction, Nan would need to really continuously nurture her relationship with Flo because I can see them getting in a rut. Flo is calm, study, and homey. Whereas Kitty who I believe still loved Nan represents a spark, and spirit of adventure, and passion. With Kitty, Nan would never have a dull moment but with Flo boredom could set in after awhile if Nan was not careful.

I really wanted Nan to choose Kitty! Kitty although she treated Nan terribly loved her. I think Florence was still pining after her dead friend like Nan seemed to be for Kitty. But anyway who am I to argue with Sarah Waters!?

While Kitty and Nan were wonderful together, I think in the end she made the right choice. You can't have a really good relationship without trust and she doesn't trust Kitty anymore. Flo gave her what she really wanted, a place where she belonged and was needed.

I always felt (in the book anyway) that although I think Kitty did love Nan to a certain extent she wasn't as devoted to her as Nan was to Kitty herself. She was very (In my opinion) self centered, she wouldn't tell anyone about their relationship to protect herself, and didn't think twice about hurting Nan in getting engaged to Walter. Even the suggestion that Nan stay with them after they got married I found apalling.

The film, probably because we were able to see things from more points of view than just Nans, showed more clearly that Kitty did love Nan with lines like "I hate the way you make me feel." and obviously facial expressions and all the rest but even in it, it seemed the relationship was little more than... superfluous to Kitty. And she was willing to string Nan along.

Maybe my opinions are all wrong. I have a habit of misinterpreting things. Also I agree with all the points below (that say she shouldn't have gone to Kitty in the end)

I think Nan did really feel for Flo. (plus they were just so cute together) I think she loved the stable environment she was provided and even at the start when she was going to leave because she thought Flo would never think of her as more than a maid. I think that shows she was willing to face the streets again because she couldn't have Flo.

Do you think a nice cool mint would help if I shoved your head up your ass?

I thought that Kitty was exploiting Nan in a sense when they were together, and I feel that Kitty isn't a person with much devotion because she had many lovers before and even though she is married to her husband, she is still trying to be in other relationships with others like Nan. What's to say that the same thing that happening to Kitty's husband won't happen to Nan?

I thought Nan made the right choice with Flo, becuase you can tell she treats her relationship seriously, (broke her heart when her former lover died) and she has a soft heart, she sympathizes Nan. But there is one thing that I worry about, and that is because Nan is famous, everyone wants her. But when the fad fades away, what will happen to her, will Flo stay loyal to Nan? I know the answer is in the book, but I haven't read it, so I am just going to continue watching to find out.

After watching this movie about 10 times, my opinion still remained the same. Up until the very end I wasn't sure who she should be with. Kitty was her first love and you never forget your first true love but Kitty treated her terribly and you never forget a relationship like that either. It wasn't entirely Kitty's fault that Nan found out about her and Walter but she shouldn't have cheated on Nan anyway. At the end of the scene when Nan finds out about Kitty and Walter and Nan turns to leave the room you'll notice that Kitty tries to go after her but Walter holds on to her. I think that Kitty really did love Nan but I think that Flo deserved her.