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Does anyone else feel bad for Joe Pitt?


He was a character who tried to follow his heart and his religion and got screwed for it! I felt so bad, as the ending doesn't resolve his situation at all, even his mom gets along just fine, what happened to joe?? Does the play resolve this?

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I agree in the end we see Belize Lewis Mrs Pitt and Prior in the park and we know after 5 yrs they are making it BUT what about poor Joe did he go on or did he back track and try again to conform. BUT wasn't it all so wonderfully done. I almost got to see iin the two night production

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I really like Joe and I was disappointed with how the film treated him. I hear there is actually even less resolution in the play, but I can't verify.

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I would have liked to see political unity with him joining the buddy buddies at the fountain at the end. I mean, his MOM is there.

If lesbian republican** Christian me can be besties with a straight FAR left democrat, I think there's room for Joe in their special fountain club.

**(I'm socially liberal, but I can see Joe going that way by the end too)

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There is even less resolution for Joe in the play, since the scene in which his mother sees him coming out of the subway and says that maybe she'll see him at dinner was entirely new for the movie. That scene at least gives a glimmer of hope for Joe's immediate, if not long-term, future. I don't personally have a ton of sympathy for Joe, but I also think that not having every character's story tied up neatly makes the play feel more true--in real life, sometimes people lose touch with each other, parents and children don't always maintain close relationships, and people can create their own, non-biological families from adult friendships. That Hannah and Joe are not together in the final fountain scene is not surprising to me based on all we've seen before; first because Louis is there (Louis and Joe had such a bad breakup) and second because Joe and Hannah obviously had personality conflicts and incompatibilities that had nothing to do with Joe's homosexuality. Also, just because he's not in the final fountain scene doesn't mean he's not still a part of other aspects of Hannah's life--just not her friendships with Prior, Louis, or Belize.

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It's hard not to feel sorry for him. He wants everything - Harper, Louis, Washington - ends up with nothing. Joe as a character represents, among other things, I think, the many dilemmas one faces in a world full of choices, almost overwhelmed by them, and shows in a gruesome way how much is lost by indecision. The tragic chaos that is life is depicted brilliantly in Joe's person.

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manch united...wow. phenomenal words.

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manch_united: very well said. need to keep that in mind, to think about it. But I am already afraid you are right here. Again, very well said. Thanks!

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Thank you for your kind words (sorry for discovering them a bit late )

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'Does anyone else feel bad for Joe Pitt?'

Yes.

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I feel so sympathy for Joe. First I have a huge thing against men who marry woman when they know they are gay. Plus like the poster above said, he is extremely self centered and doesnt care about anyone but himself and what he wants.

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Unfortunately, organizations such as the Mormon Church are SO extremely homophobic, that a gay person raised in this church is very conflicted. It's a source of torment for them - I feel for Joe. He can't just be who he is - he can't be honest with HIMSELF. If he could, he would have left the church and he would have become just a regular, honest gay guy, living the life that makes him happy.

Churches that are as hateful at the Mormon Church do enormous harm.



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I agree with you 100% dbh850. I think it is very easy to judge Joe and people like him, especially if you haven't been in their shoes. While I agree that what he did was wrong and extremely damaging to his unsuspecting wife, one has to understand where he is coming from. He was so filled with self-hatred and denial that he probably honsetly believed that he could control is "evil urges." The shame and fear that people like Joe live with is truly horriffic, and I'm sure he felt trapped. The Morman Church is notorious for causing gays and lesbians to live a lie in order to prevent becoming outcasts. Imagine being told from birth that you have to lie in order to keep your family, friends, communiuty and soul.
I would suggest to anyone who has questions about this subject to see the movie Later Days. It captures the hell someone like Joe goes through. It is really very sad.
So in answer to the OP's question. Yes. I do feel very sorry for Joe and have the utmost sympathy and compassion for him. I also feel deeply for his wife, who is also a victim of a narrow minded and abusive society, which is largely based on hatred and denial. What is truly sad is that just days before 2010 people are still forced to live a lie or face being ostricized and denied basic rights.

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Of course, aren't we suppose too? Here is a man in conflict, a man in pain, living a lie in the closet. He's portrayed as pure trying to keep his evil Gay-ness at bay. Leading his conflicted wife into madness wasn't intentional. If you have an ounce of compassion you even feel bad for Cohn and he was a very bad man.

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No. he's mormon do you know how much pain those people cause gays? Try prop 8.

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Do I feel bad for Joe? No. I feel bad for anyone who ever depended on that selfish bastard.

My disgust with Joe really has nothing to do with how he dealt with his sexual identify. Maybe he did have a hard time because of the way he was raised. Boo-hoo. If you want to know Joe's true character, re-watch the beach scene again.

He told Louis that Louis was "right" to abandon his partner when Prior so desperately needed him, and that Louis's behavior was actually brave (!) because he 'deserved to be happy'. It's bad enough that some people actually believe in this kind of monstrous selfishness in theory, but Joe was able to look at a worst-case result of this philosophy in action, and his response was to whole-heartedly defend it!

Of course, by defending Louis, Joe was defending his own comfortable situation with a new boyfriend, and defending his own abandonment of the woman he drove into a drug-hazed instability. So I guess we shouldn't be surprised.

And let's not forget the scene when Louis confronts him over the opinions he'd written: the self-righteous pietism he exihibits for "The Law" as he twists that law into absurb contortions to justify the way his legal work ran rough-shod over the people that weren't priveledged enough to have corrupt insiders like Roy Cohn looking out for them.

I feel horrible for Joe-the-teenager, raised in a culture that put him through such personal anguish. But the Joe we see is an adult and should damn well know better. He voluntarily assumed responsibilities, both personal and public, and he betrayed both in ways that caused terrible damage.

The only difference I see between Joe and Roy was that Roy KNEW he was corrupt and didn't care. But Joe is convinces himself that his own behavior is irreproachable, without any thought of the the misery he causes. And that makes him all the more dangerous.

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Hey, guys. I was actually coming on here to say the same thing. Since you guys already have a good discussion going on about it, I thought I'd share what's written in SparkNotes, particularly when Louis confronts Joe about his politics:


The implications of the moment are disturbing. For one, it seems inconsistent on Louis's part: he has known Joe's politics since the day they met. That Joe takes a conservative position on judicial issues like environmental protection can hardly come as a surprise; even Joe's gay rights ruling, while lamentable, ought to be understandable to Louis. But Louis makes no further attempts to understand—even Joe's impassioned cries that he loves him fall on deaf ears.

Joe's attempts to justify himself—his snide reference to Louis as "the guy who changes the coffee filters in the secretaries' lounge," his defensive retort that the children were not really blinded or that law is different from justice, and most especially, his physical assault on Louis—seem intended to turn the audience against Joe, to make us take Louis's side once and for all. Certainly Kushner does not present Joe in a sympathetic light or offer him the chance to defend himself—he only reappears briefly in two scenes, mostly pleading ineffectually with Harper, and he is excluded from the triumphant epilogue at the Bethesda Fountain. All the other characters are forgiven to some degree, even Roy; Joe alone is unceremoniously booted from the play's society. And yet his only "crime" is that he is personally and politically conservative. This disconnect has led some critics to ask whether Kushner is fair to Joe. John M. Clum writes, "Kushner drops Joe off the face of the earth shortly before the end of Perestroika, as if he is unredeemable or simply not very interesting…Yet in every production of Angels in America I have seen, Joe is the character I care about, anguish over." Joe's struggle to come out of the closet with dignity, to contribute to society or to maintain what seems to be a sincere spirituality count for nothing, with Louis or with the playwright. His apparently heartfelt love for Louis is disregarded and unlamented. In the end, he cannot escape that most dreadful label possible, "Republican." It is an aberration in Kushner's otherwise sympathetic and generous vision, but, perhaps for this reason, it is all the more provocative.



I wonder if maybe Patrick Wilson played Joe more sympathetic than he was supposed to, and that's why many of us on here, including myself, didn't think he was so bad as apparently we were supposed to.



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That was actually the first thing to cross my mind when the credits rolled - what about Joe?

A sad, sad man who (seemingly) is left with nothing.

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