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So many people who come to these boards arent even directly irish (by the way you're not irish if youre ancestors were but you were brought up somewhere else) or catholic. Im an irish Catholic sitting in Dublin and i just want to give out a few home truths.
You can all sit there and say how awful the clergy were and that they were criminally cruel but the thing is alot of them were good people who deep in their hearts thought that they were saving these girls' souls. They truly thought that by making them less attractive and punishing them that these girls would be put back on the road to redemption. Im not saying they were right and im not belittling the amount of suffering these people endured, im just saying it what they were taught to do and believe in.

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I'm Irish(irish-american, there how is that) and a catholic. now having gotten that out of the way. While some, heck probably most, of the sisters truly believed they were helping, but there were some that were corupt or took things too far. Watch the documentery " Sex in a Cold Climate" listen to the stories from the people who went through the laundries. can you honestly tell me that that was purly trying to "save" the girls... theres a women named phillis in the second part of the show and im pretty sure bernadette was based on her. and also just to get it off my chest, It is, after all, just a movie.

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It is, after all, just a movie


Yes, a move based on fact.

It did happen, the laundries + all that type of abuse existed inside + outside the laundries by priests and nuns.

''There are no coincidences only patterns we do not see...''


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Yes, a move based on fact.

It did happen, the laundries + all that type of abuse existed inside + outside the laundries by priests and nuns.


I know that it is all based on fact, and I certainly wasnt trying to deny the things that happened, all I was trying to say was that perhaps the thread starter was taking this a bit too seriously. Im sure people arn't going to watch this movie and say "oh, i guess all irish people, catholics and especialy irish catholics are bad people and/or do these things" and those who may say that, well they are just mis-informed and yeah...


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I too am Irish Catholic and wouldn't dream of making an excuse for the any nasty (putting it mildly!) priests nuns at that time.

I am well aware they weren't 'all' bad or nasty individuals.

Have you read all the other related posts on the Magdelane Sisters?? Obviously not. This arguement has already been done.

They were NOT taught to rape, abuse and humiliate young women. The problem back then was that The Catholic Church had a HUGE influance over the majority of the country and were so powerful no one ever questioned them. You would never have been believed anyway.


Your comment ''They truly thought that by making them less attractive and punishing them that these girls would be put back on the road to redemption.'' IS RUBBISH!!! They were on a power trip, it wasn't about what they believed in. It was all about power and abusing it....

Don't try to excuse that type of behaviour, it seems like you are 'trying' to do just that.

Are you sure you are an Irish Catholic??!!! Mmmm, Possibly a devout one.


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yes, I am Irish (born and bred) and was brought up a Catholic, and there is no excuse for the treatment that was handed out to young girls in these institutions right up until very recently. They were abused, terrified and milked for free labour. They got no education, training, nurturing, nothing, only beatings and abuse.

I am sure there were good nuns and priests out there - there are some in my family and I believe them to be good people, but that does not justify the abuse handed out to children and young people in Ireland, from paedophile priests to slavery in the laundries and to the more mundane beatings and humiliations handed out every day in schools by sick people with a twisted view of sexuality and on a power trip. And taking it out on children supposedly in their care, which makes them the worst sort of bullies.

now, I am not going to tell anybody to shut up, because everybody is entitled to their view and their voice, and that is mine.

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I agree with you 100%.
BTW The 'Shutup' thing originated from the OP...

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Thanks Aoife.
You and I are on the same wavelength.
Just watch the replys!!!

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is this a thread just for irish catholics? can anyone else join in?

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It's a thread for people whon know what their talking about..Do you???
Religion has nothing to do with it my friend!!!

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i know what i know ;) not much by your standards but better than nothing

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Oh well!!! Good for you...

Just as long as you dont make excuses for catholic abusers....

It's hard to believe people nearly try to justify any abuse, but especially

abuse carried out by priests + nuns....



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i don't make excuses for abusers regardless of their religion. it should have nothing to do with it

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religion. it should have nothing to do with it


Correct...
Glad you agree.

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WTF!! glad that we all agree on the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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what i said?

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did someone agree in response to what i wrote earlier? becuase i'm confused

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okie doke

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i've just studied fundamentalism in sociology and how america is full of them ;)

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I am pretty much in agreement with what you say. I think these nuns probably thought they were doing good at the time. People nowadays are too narrow-minded to understand that. They are judging the nuns by todays values but you cannot do that - it is plain damned stupid ! They act like the fascists of the 1930's - they want to impose their views on everyone else and cannot tolerate that people don't think like them. That is fascism and must be fought. Personally, I find aspects of the nuns behaviour repulsive and humiliating for the girls. But I am also shocked by the fact that the girls fornicated outside marriage and even more shocked by the fact that they were rejected by their parents which to me seemed the worst sin of all. Everybody is concentrating on the nuns and forgetting the other sins. Basically, human beings are always quick to condemn others in a one-sided way without having a global view of the situation. I am not Irish but English, therefore I have little knowledge of Irish culture and values but I am catholic and was educated in Catholic Boarding Schools ( Jesuits, De la Salle Brothers, Sisters of Mary ). I never once saw or heard of any case of sexual abuse, perversion or unsavoury action or cruelty on the part of these people - that is not to say that it has never existed anywhere - but moderation is required and I demand that no-one dares to tar all these people with the same brush ! I am sure that this is a fashion phenomenon and that all those who are so quick to criticize priests and nuns for sexual abuse, perversions and other cruelties have never, in their lives ever had to affront such a situation in reality. I am sure that much of what those nuns did may have been sinful and immoral - but when you look at today's society which is a den of immorality - abortion, murder, homosexual marriage, bestialigy, necrophilia, gambling, corruption, greed, lust, violence, torture ...quite frankly what those nuns were doing now seems like chicken feed !

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Is subjecting women who had committed no legal offense to arbitrary detention and human rights abuses your genuine idea of "moderation"?!? I understand that you're trying to say that there are two sides to the argument, but the actions of those nuns were indecent and abusive. The Nazis, Al-Qaeda and the Taliban all believed what they were doing was right, but that doesn't mean we don't have the right to be disgusted by their actions. You also seem to have missed the fairly major point that the nuns' primary interest was using the girls for free labour as a money making enterprise. The nuns' used them for slave labour, illegally detained them, physically attacked, humiliated them and leered at their bodies. I was educated at Catholic school, and I have to say I missed the part of the Bible where it said that your sins can be cured if the priest rapes you...
As for being shocked at the fact the girls fornicated outside of marriage: firstly, I would state that over 95% of people nowadays have sex before marriage, so although you may disapprove, you can't possibly be genuinely shocked. And I wonder, can you find ONE valid reason OTHER than unexplained statements in the Bible that would explain why sex outside of marriage is bad thing...don't use the case of unwanted pregnancy. There's this modern thing called a condom - oh, but I suppose contraception would be part of the disgusting immoral world we live in today. Ahh, for the good old days of institutional rape and misogyny!
Also, have you seen this movie??? Margaret was RAPED. You obviously wouldn't know *beep* about it, but it's an extremely traumatic experience which NO ONE (well possibly a very few extremely sexually kinked people) would willingly submit to. If I had a daughter (dammit, I hate the way I can't capitalise I for emphasis!)who was raped I would be there for her to make it as easy to bear as I possibly could because she would need all my help, rather than have her commited indefinitely to some asylum run by lunatics and sadists (And yes, the well-meaning people you mentioned - Katy, for example. But the majority of what went on was governed by Sister Bridget's views...and she was a no-hols-barred sociopathic sadist!) She did NOT deserve it. Rose did not deserve it either, she deserved a chance at being a good mother to her baby, now she had brought it into the world. But even if you consider fornication to be a sin, Margaret and Bernadette had not commited it.
As for Bernadette, she was commited for TALKING to some boys. If the girls at my school were commited just for doing that, they'd be shipping them off daily.
Just because morality is subjective, that doesn't mean everyone should refrain from making their own judgements about right and wrong. You're criticizing us because we judge the nuns' actions as wrong, should we all become nihilists? We don't have anything concrete, so people might as well make up their own minds. We're judging them by our morals - the Nuns were judging the "Penitents" by THEIR morals. You're also contradicting yourself as you go on to label the girls immoral along with homosexuals, gamblers and pro-choice lobbyists. In fact even the bestials and necrophiliacs you reference - what makes their actions any more immoral than what the Nuns did? I find the idea of necrophilia and bestality pretty sickening and disgusting, but those people probably have serious psychological conditions (as did most of the nuns)and in most cases they don't cause any harm to any other (living) human beings. So in terms of intent and effect, their actions are no more immoral.
Also, you seem to be religious, so clearly you judge people by your own set of morals. Would you leave children in abusive homes because after all evryone has different ideas about childcare?
Know who was going about their daily business while the Magdalene laundries were going strong? MOTHER TERESA. Now SHE was a good nun, not these deluded women.

"I am sure that much of what those nuns did may have been sinful and immoral - but when you look at today's society which is a den of immorality - abortion, murder, homosexual marriage, bestialigy, necrophilia, gambling, corruption, greed, lust, violence, torture ...quite frankly what those nuns were doing now seems like chicken feed!"
Um, NO IT DOES NOT! The Magdalene Laundries were an absolute haven of corruption, greed, violence, torture and lust of a twisted nature. Which I assume is the kind of lust you consider to be wrong, since in case you hadn't figured out, lust is a natural physiological drive, such as hunger, which helps the human race to reproduce and keep producing more lovely nuns! There's nothing wrong with having sex with someone you love, it's natural (Well actually it's NATURAL to have sex with all and sundry, but more accepted -and at its best-with someone you love)
And absolutely NONE of the things you mentioned are specific features of "todays society". Maybe "homosexual marriage" hasn't been allowed up till now, but in some times/places in Ancient Greece it was common practice to be bisexual, with two partners! There was an entire island "Lesbos", purely for lesbian entertainment. Abortions have been performed since Ancient times, too (I am moderately pro-life) they didn't spring into existence when they were legalised. Gambling, corruption, greed, lust, bestiality, necrophilia have all been around for millions of years...probably forever. Things aren't any worse now, it's just a common misconception because modern culture allows more freedom of expression so these things are more openly discussed, and I suppose the delusional view of vice being a moden invention is irritated by the fact we were preceded by the sex-phobic Victorians. From everything I've learned about history, I can conclude that although we live in a pretty *beep* up world, things are getting better by the day.
People are not fascists by stating their opinions that this treatment of women was disgusting. The girls had commited no crime and were legal adults, and thus the nuns were guilty of arbitrary detention, forced labour, sexual abuse and numerous breaches of international human rights laws (many of which WERE in action during the time period the film is set). Your use of the word fascists is pretty ironic, since I can gather from the other posts on here, that I'm not the only one who found myself at times reminded of scenes Schindler's List, The Pianist and Anne Frank.
Your blatant homophobia disgusts me beyond expression. To me, whether some is good or bad depends largely on whether it is being done with compassion, and the nuns showed the girls no compassion, kindness or support at all. They can't be compared with two men or women in a loving, trusting relationship who hurt NO ONE. What people so often miss when making moral judgements is whether they are actually causing anyone any pain. Jesus spoke out against the Pharisees for using the temple as a money-making enterprise which extorted the local people. Do you honestly think he would be happy about the mere existence of the Magdalene Asylums, let alone the fact they were using his name?
When you think about it, if Heaven could sue, they would have more cases than any organisation in the world XD. The original Mary Magdalene was NOT forced to starve herself and live her life in slavery - she joined Jesus and became a prominent member of the early church. The Magdalene girls weren't given a chance to do anythign positive about their situations - in fact after breakign out, the only choice for some of them was prostitution.
Thanks for your time, PS Jesus had dinner with prostitutes without giving them a hard time!

17 years old//Female//Brought up Catholic, not affiliated with any official religion but strong "christian tendencies"! :D//English

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One thing I wanted to add to your comment about Ancient Greece, is that not only was it acceptable to be a Lesbian or Bi-sexual, but it was also common and accepted to be Gay AND for an older man to pursue a relationship with a younger man, so long as he sought the parents' permission, and courted the young man as though he were courting a young woman he would be considering for marriage.

Ancient Greece was a very interesting and liberated country.

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They fornicated outside marriage??? Damn, do you live in some other century or on some other planet?

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He's also against gay marriage

The sooner fundies like him die out the better

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I so agree! ^5

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"Fetuses are not human beings they are cells."

We're all cells. What do you think we're all made out of? Fetuses are human beings. That is a scientific fact.

The argument is NOT whether it is a human being but its VALUE. You can't just decide that because you don't value that fetus that all of a sudden it ceases to be what it actually is.

If it weren't a human being, you would not be pregnant and would not need an abortion in the first place. If you had some random cells growing inside you we would call that a tumor, not a pregnancy. And no one aborts tumors. The whole word abortion means to stop something in process. Thus you end the fetus's life.


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Fire away, fire away.

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Great place to abort this guaranteed non-productive discussion, then.

Unless someone has something to add about abortion that by gosh by golly has NEVER been said before. That would be miracle enough to let it disrupt a movie discussion.

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I am pretty much in agreement with what you say. I think these nuns probably thought they were doing good at the time. People nowadays are too narrow-minded to understand that. They are judging the nuns by todays values but you cannot do that - it is plain damned stupid ! They act like the fascists of the 1930's - they want to impose their views on everyone else and cannot tolerate that people don't think like them. That is fascism and must be fought. Personally, I find aspects of the nuns behaviour repulsive and humiliating for the girls. But I am also shocked by the fact that the girls fornicated outside marriage and even more shocked by the fact that they were rejected by their parents which to me seemed the worst sin of all. Everybody is concentrating on the nuns and forgetting the other sins. Basically, human beings are always quick to condemn others in a one-sided way without having a global view of the situation. I am not Irish but English, therefore I have little knowledge of Irish culture and values but I am catholic and was educated in Catholic Boarding Schools ( Jesuits, De la Salle Brothers, Sisters of Mary ). I never once saw or heard of any case of sexual abuse, perversion or unsavoury action or cruelty on the part of these people - that is not to say that it has never existed anywhere - but moderation is required and I demand that no-one dares to tar all these people with the same brush ! I am sure that this is a fashion phenomenon and that all those who are so quick to criticize priests and nuns for sexual abuse, perversions and other cruelties have never, in their lives ever had to affront such a situation in reality. I am sure that much of what those nuns did may have been sinful and immoral - but when you look at today's society which is a den of immorality - abortion, murder, homosexual marriage, bestialigy, necrophilia, gambling, corruption, greed, lust, violence, torture ...quite frankly what those nuns were doing now seems like chicken feed !

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There are probably similar institutions in other countries right now and we just havent heard about them yet. I think Peter Mullan tried to give a voice to the 'Magdalene' girls whose lives had been ruined, even though by now some have died, some arent even bothered about compensation.

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'But I am also shocked by the fact that the girls fornicated outside marriage and even more shocked by the fact that they were rejected by their parents which to me seemed the worst sin of all.'

of course you would be shocked if paretns didn't support their own children. but why would you be shocked that the girls had sex before marriage? the more you forbid something, the more people will want to do it. its complete double standards, men have always whored around with prostitutes and mistresses through history, married or not, the kings of england were well known for their illigitimate children. but when a woman does it, she pays the price and gets abused for the rest of her life. thats whats disgusting about it

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Non-Irish nationals of Irishdescent are referred to as FBIs, Foreign Born Irish. Yours truly is one and Catholic. Got that out of the way, I'm sorry there was nko excusee or justification for wat the nuns and priests did. Those girls should have been helped and pitied not judged, bullied and abused. That's not what Christianity or Catholicism is about! However, not to generalize not all nuns and priest are like the way they were portrayed in the film there are some wjho asre saints! Don't compare the Magdalene Sisters to Ken Russell's The Devils!

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There is no excuse for cruelty. And over the last decade or so, the Irish Papers (I`m from Belfast, and from a catholic background but not one myself, not that it truly makes any difference) have been full to the brim of the cruelty of the Catholic Church. There is no justification, regardless of what they thought they were doing.

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"you look at todays society which is a den of immorality - abortion, murder, homosexual marriage, bestiality, necrophelia, gambling, corruption, greed, lust, violence, torture . . . quite frankly what those nuns were doing now seems like chicken feed"

The nuns were guilty of corruption, greed (using the girls for free labour), violence and torture (psychological torture). And I'm pretty sure murder, bestiality and necrophelia aren't recent inventions. As for abortion preventing a fetus from growing into a baby is nothing compared to taking a newborn baby off its mother. I would point out other hypocrisies you mentioned but the snork maiden has done it for me. Jesus never said that homosexuality, abortion or premarital sex were sins but he talked plenty about abuse of power and loving your fellow man.

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I am Irish/Mexican you want to talk atrocities by the Catholic Church. The only way I could agree with the OP is maybe in the twisted minds of these religious zealots, while they did enjoy what they were doing, had to justify their cruelty towards these girls as a kind of imposed penitence. The crueler they were the more the girls were cleansed so to speak to bleed out their sins for Christ. Some of my distant relatives were of the Old Spanish Penitente religion they practiced ritual self-abuse to be cleansed of sin and suffer as Christ. This is why religious zealots of any faith are so dangerous they incorporate and justify cruelty, torture and abuses for our own good. They are saving our souls and for some reason this involves killing and pain. Just like the Salem witch-hunts I think they were peace-loving Quakers or such. So while some of you say that the nun’s and priest were not taught to be so harsh I wonder. How else can one explain all the horror done by those claiming to be and truly believing they are so devout? Don’t you think somewhere along the way these individuals were warped by someone in control of their interpretations of religion and faith? I’m sorry but I feel many religions incorporate quite a bit of brain washing and unquestionable obedience, not much room for free thought and expression. To me this movie was more about the human condition especially for women this story rings true in so many varying cultures, races, and religions throughout the world. I don’t see why Catholics should take this so personal it was a story of abuse and slavery within a particular group of people. I think we should all be ashamed of atrocities done by so called human beings. No group is exempt from cruelties as long as that group belongs to the family of man. Face it we need to evolve past this kind of behavior call it for what it is justifying horrendous behavior for a belief whether that belief be in religion or government it doesn’t matter. My husband read something about a belief not being dangerous until it becomes a religion I wish I could remember the quote. I am not trying to offend anyone. It really doesn’t matter what religion I am or my beliefs I just know as a human being I personally feel horrible that humans can be capable of such things. I agree what was done by those nuns were equally as bad as the other atrocities mentioned. You know many serial killers thought they were helping their victims too.

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Jesus did speak about loving your fellow man, which includes the unborn. Just because they cannot speak up for themselves doesn't mean they don't exist. As far as I know, Jesus wasn't that big a fan of murder, so why would he be okay with abortion?

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Because abortion isn't murder. Fetuses are not human beings they are cells.

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Human beings are cells, too. Abortion is the deliberate killing of a genetically unique human life.






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