Not in England


The thing that most struck me about this film is that the way Mr Lopez interacts with his students could not happen in the English system anymore.

Nowadays we are so 'PC', so frightened by the threat of paedophilia that moments like the end of the term when all the children kiss Mr Lopez goodbye on the cheek just could not happen. Similarly, when the young Valentin cries for his mother, Lopez picks him up and hugs him - and we see a lot of physical contact throughout the film. I remember, when I myself attended a small rural school, the day that my teacher explained that they weren't allowed to hug you if you fell down and hurt your knee, and even then it seemed really odd.

For me this film proved that political corectness in the society of England has gone too far. Clearly steps have to be taken to avoid exploitation of children, but this film shows that Lopez's students have thrived in an environment that is somewhere between home and the schools we know in England.

I guess what I am trying to say, is that perhaps the people in charge of the English education system should look at this film and see what education is really about...stop setting so many exams, realise that education is about one person teaching another something that can help them in life, or that merely interests them. When did it have to become so institutionalized? I remember being taught how to do cross-stitch at school and then being allowed to spend afternoons out in the sunshine stitching. We should focus on educating a *person* - not just teaching subjects for the sole purpose of answering questions (hyperbolic I know).

Having said that, I have had some brilliant teachers - just like Mr Lopez in fact, who are completely dedicated to their work and go above and beyond the call of duty to help a student out both educationally and emtionally.

I shall go and ponder now...

(just my initial thoughts)

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see? that's exactly what I wanted to say but you're much more eloquent than I am. LOL.

thankfully I will have left main stream education within the year...just uni to go *sigh*

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LOL could you imagine? Probably wouldn't look quite as cute as the kids and Mr Lopez...

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I agree neither of these two actions would be able to be done in an American school either. However, the French greeting and or departing of friends and family of both and the same gender with a kiss on the cheek (2,3 or 4 depending on region) is just such a ubiquitous (usage?) act that I doubt that it would be taken for pedophilia or sexual harrassment in French culture.

As well stated by the other comments of this subject this also tells us about the relationship that these students had with their teacher who knew a lot of them and their families from about age 3-12.

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kissing is a very common welcome-gesture in France. It's not sexual at all. It's just like a better handshake. And I think it shows very well the relationship between Mr. Lopez and his students.
danke.

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Actually.. I noticed that he didn't touch the children much.

For example, when Natalie was crying (poor girl), he didn't touch her at all. Too dangerous I think. She was pre-pubescent and obviously that could have been interpreted incorrectly by her.

He really only touched the children when absolutely necessary such as the very small new boy. And if you notice, he didn't actually kiss the children goodbye (with the exception of Natalie) - they kissed him.

But yes.. I did like the way he was respectful with the children. He didn't shout at them, become angry with them (not even a shadow of anger flashed across his face ever), make sarcastic remarks which went over their heads or tell them fairy tales. By fairy tales I mean he didn't say, "Oh, you can be whatever you want to be IF you just believe in yourself." No, he said, "You have to apply yourself and work hard." Good man.

Oh.. and I have to say that my class six primary school teacher of Ysgol Maelgwyn Primary School in Llandudno Junction, North Wales, Miss Peggy Owen, also taught the whole class (girls and boys) cross-stitch. And I've not stopped since. I'm planning an exhibition of my work (cross-stitch and bargello) in the local library in Düsseldorf, together with a friend of mine who does calligraphy and silk painting, and I shall be dedicating my part to her.

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But he did touch her, he put his hand on her shoulder at one point, right before she got more emotional. I don't think it affected her badly, she was just getting upset about her condition.

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Same as the US. It gets worse as the student gets older. I had a college professor who said something to the effect of, "I always have my door open with students inside, and I'll be more than happy to shake your hand. Now, if you came up to me and said your father died and you needed a hug, I'd hug you in an instant. But other than that, you can't be too careful."

Cause it's not actually proving someone guilty that hurts them in that situation, the accusation alone can ruin them. So we have teachers that are petrified of getting to close to students in case they get accused.

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I agree with the OP. When I saw the kids climbing on chairs or being unsupervised playing in the garden (although Mr Lopez was inside and ready to come out whenever needed), it had something very refreshing about it. In the UK (and probably in the US), the obsession with political correctness and health and safety have gone too far indeed.

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