Favorite movies about marriage


this movie is intersting because it shows a very common but undiscussed experience: all long-term relationships eventually must confront some type of crisis.

i think it's odd that we live in a world that allows you to take sick days for the flu but expects you to show up for work when your marriage is falling apart.

with that i'm wondering what films you think are some of the best films about marriage...

a few of mine are two for the road, husbands & wives, scenes from a marriage

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American Beauty- my favorite movie about marriage, because it tackled a side of marriage that most movies do not.

Why do you wear that stupid bunny suit?
Why are you wearing that stupid man suit?

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Scenes from a Marriage is also my favorite film about marriage. I saw it at the Art Museum of Chicago (Bergman film series) and my gut felt pretty wrenched from the second hour and on. I was also pretty nervous about getting a parking ticket. No one told me this film was so long.

Bergman's scenarios seem to extend past those of typical directors and films, where we see thing lead up to the conflict, and then the conflict. Bergman stresses the importance of the decisions people make after a conflict. These decisions are difficult, and usually made with clouded judgement.

Bergman is a bonafide genius with his actors (players). Excruciatingly so.

"Wings, don't fail me now!" - Batty Boy

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Definitely,


The Story of Us Bruce willis and michelle pfifer

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In H'wood, marriage is an afterthought,
an inconvience, or at best an irritant.
Someone name a single movie they've
seen that deals w/ a marriage and especially,
infidelity and the breakup, in a vaguely realistic manner.
Resolutions are quick, painless, and easy.
Conflict is simplistic, minimized, & trite.
And transition is effortless for all involved.
Typically, the cheating HUSBAND is left by the
woman as an act of supreme liberation,
while the cheating WIFE is ALWAYS forgiven her sins,
and extended a second chance by her "loving" man.
Can anyone name one movie where the wife loses
her husband, and we see it as it happens?
Better yet, one where there is actually some regret,
& remorse in the equation? If you can, you're one
of the lucky ones!! We can only hope in our lifetime.......

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"Can anyone name one movie where the wife loses her husband, and we see it as it happens? Better yet, one where there is actually some regret, & remorse in the equation?"


Damage
http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0104237/

Too Beautiful for You
http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0098520/

...and those were just in the last couple of days.

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Trois Colours: Bleu

"If you want the rainbow, you’ve gotta put up with the rain." Dolly Parton

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Dolly's wrong. The best rainbows happen when the rain is somewhere else.

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I agree...this movie was very interesting. It was amazing to see the performance of Hope Davis who brought just the right amount of "is she or isn`t she?" flavor to the husbands suspicions of infidelity. What can I say. This film has reinforced my belief that women are far better liars then men.

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breaking the waves, war of the roses, in america,

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"Unfaithful" directed by Adrian Lyne, staring Richard Gere and Diane Lane.

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I agree this is a great movie about marriage. The children are very realistically portrayed. They seem like real children and I would be interested to hear or see how they were directed.
Very well acted all round and showed the real world of a marriage with kids.

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i'd have to say 'the squid and the whale', though it is about divorce. i just thought it was portrayed so realistically and didn't fall into any cliched traps.

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"Yayyy, Mommies home!" was the best line I've heard in a long time.

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Few films tackle the nuances of marriages/relationships. But, here's some films that do a decent job:

5X2 (French film by François Orzon) - The curious thing about this film is that it's told backwards. That is, it starts off with a scene where a husband and wife finalize their divorce and then linger in a hotel room, tension brewing and interests clashing. The film then takes you back across a series of events in their marriage, all the way to the first day they met. The whole thing leaves a bitter taste in your mouth, but the acting is superb and it ends up being very gripping.

And - I hesitate to mention this film - THE LAST KISS with Zach Braff actually does hit the nail in some respects when it comes to relationship turmoil, much more than the (in my opinion) overrated The Break-Up. Now, The Last Kiss is a flawed film and on the whole the script doesn't flow well enough, but some scenes succinctly capture the agony that ensues when two people love each other but succumb to doubts and insecurities.

Finally, on a lighter note: KISSING JESSICA STEIN. Despite being a quirky comedy, it does tackle break-ups realistically. A lot of people find the film annoying, or not "realistic" enough... I don't know. I think it takes two specific characters and very specifically demonstrates why THEY can't work as a couple. And it's completely convincing. If only mainstream rom-coms could deal with reality in the same way!

Well, can't think of anything else off the top of my head.



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One of the best I've seen is Lantana, an Aussie picture that won numberous awards. Geoffrey Rush, Barbara Hershey, and Chickenlips, what is his name? Anthony Lapaglia. Excellent well-made film, 10 times better than this dreck. And don't forget one of the best Denis Leary films ever, The Ref.

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George and Gracie... I adore them

Smoke me a kipper. I’ll be back for breakfast

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War of the Roses

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