1. You started it pal, don't go cryin' in your soup now that you don't like how things have turned out. You go spouting that your wife "She thinks your ideas are as outdated and draconian as I do" and you can expect to get that tossed back in your face. If you're gonna toss punches, expect to be jabbed back. Put on your mask buddy and don't pout. What was that you were saying about being "judgmental"? <grin>
By the way, my wife did not insult you, she said what she said about your "opinion", remember? Not you. I never wrote what she said about your wife, or rather her opinion, remember? As a matter-of-fact I said NOTHING and remarked that if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything. Which is more than I can say for what you did. So don't put words in her, or my mouth. You started it by bringing your wife in and calling my ideas "outdated and draconian", and then you have the GALL to sit there and JUDGE me and my wife for what we said about your OPINION. Whew! Talk about hypocrites! Shame on you.
2. My wife doesn't need to meet you or your wife to have opinions about your views on virginity. Don't like it? Lump it. You insulted ME first, remember that. I wasn't being rude, merely truthful. Believers aren't little mice hiding in the corner, afraid of the big, bad atheists. I've been debating with atheists for over 25 years, and I've heard all of the claptrap garbage. The bottom line is that you believe that the Laws of Thermodynamics are laws NOW, but once (when it suits you) they weren't. Result? You have faith in your god, I have faith in mine, but I'm not afraid of calling a spade a spade and pointing out the absurdities of your religion.
3. You have a "silly little belief system" too. Oh, and what was that about being judgmental there elbow? About being "rude". Something about a "double standard"? I find your belief system about as logical as spontaneous generation, and twice as stupid, but hey, as you say... to each his own.
Oh and one last thing, you wrote:
The points in your post I took issue with were purely the ones revolving around how it was not a woman's decision how or when she lost her virginity.
When the heck did I say that? I NEVER said that! THIS is what I said:
Women, girls, whatever age you are... hear THIS, the absolute, very, very, very worst possible, most horrific, terrible, cruel, vicious, hateful, sad, life-killing, painful, heart-wrenching, devastating, depressing, soul-crushing thing you can possibly do, is to give your virginity to someone else when you're dating us.
Read that? WHEN YOU'RE DATING US! Sure, I also said:
Sure, it's gonna happen sometime, but don't treat it like it's something you've gotta get rid of, which is the way I see a lot of movies treat it (not this one) - and damn sure don't let some pimply kid you just met take it in the backseat of a Ford Fiesta, ya know? That's all I'm sayin'.
I was speaking for MYSELF, my opinion, not other guys. The earlier statement about when you are DATING US was about other guys. The final statement was MY OWN OPINION, and was just a "suggestion" not to "treat it like it's something you have to get rid of". Don't agree? FINE. Like what I think is gonna stop some woman from doing what she wants with her virginity! Talk about "draconian", that's you trying to make me feel bad about my OPINION. Well, guess what? I don't feel bad, as a matter-of-fact I feel GREAT about my opinion.
But tell me, when did I say, that it "was not a woman's decision how or when she lost her virginity."? When did I say that? I didn't, only as it pertained to FIDELITY with the person she is in a relationship with, and even you agreed that people have a say in what their partners do with their body when they are in a committed relationship. Or are you ok with a wife sleeping around on her husband? The rest was simply my *opinion*, and had nothing to do with me saying *anything* about it not being "a woman's decision".
So...
I'm not really concerned at all whether you "enjoy me any more" or not. But since you and your wife decide to be hypocrites and rail on my "silly little belief system" when both of you believe in the equivalent of the atomic Easter Bunny, then yea… I think it best we go our separate ways... you and your "fishwife".
"...nothing is left of me, each time I see her..." - Catullus
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